"With age comes increased wisdom and calmness." Why mourn the loss of your youth when you can celebrate the fact that you're finally a grownup? ;)
If it makes you feel better, I've found women in their late 20's to mid 30's the most attractive and desirable. They are still at the cusp of their beauty, but have also developed the maturity and widsom to go with it.
You imply the ripened fruit? True, it’s the sweetest and most colorful… but doesn’t it become wrinkled, dried up remains of what it once was. That’s the stage I am most fearful of. To that you will say that one is as old as one feels. And that is precisely the thing: I already feel old. Isn’t that sad? The paradox is that I do not believe that I am thirty but feel about sixty. At what point does the idea of checking out a new club gives you compulsive protesting shakes and you pick up a book instead? It is not the physical shape that I mourn after but the increasing lack for strong desires, a mellow apathy that slowly takes over. I am not speaking of depression, but the chronic blues that never escapes most of us. Even that blues, is eventually replaced with indifference. And that is the worst! I am not complaining, simply being pragmatic.
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You're is coming up.. any plans for celebration?
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If it makes you feel better, I've found women in their late 20's to mid 30's the most attractive and desirable. They are still at the cusp of their beauty, but have also developed the maturity and widsom to go with it.
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