Sounds like jealousy shoe is on the other foot....gimmeapuckOctober 20 2004, 17:12:17 UTC
It surprises me that you come here with something to defend. True happiness is not caring how others feel about your happiness or what their opinions of your situation may be. Happiness is removing yourself from the drama and living your life.... but apparently you haven't done that.
I've never heard Sarah judge others for developing feelings for someone online - and I know this personally because I'm one of those people. No, I don't have an online relationship, because I don't believe in them - not under normal circumstances. But I do believe that it's possible to have feelings for someone you've not met face to face.
Sarah and Chris' situation is a bit different than most. If she could have met him months ago, she would have, but currently this isn't possible. Rest assured, it will happen as soon as it IS possible.
Not to be judgemental myself, but it sounds to me like you might need to take a dose of reality and grow up just a bit. If you're happy, go on with your happiness and don't wish harm on other people. That's just immature and pathetic.
Speaking of being hypocritical, your little karma comment just might bring you your own.
Re: Sounds like jealousy shoe is on the other foot....hpnotiqaOctober 20 2004, 18:16:50 UTC
LOL.. I'm not bashing you. You didn't give anybody any shit for having an online/long distance relationship with another like Sarah did. And Sarah's sister doesn't even know the situation, she just wants to judge and criticize and get involved with things that have nothing to do with her. I do wish Sarah had the guts to stand up for herself and apologize for being so disrespectful and causing so much shit and then turning on what she said. But she's not, her sister is here to fight her battles for her and defend her when she has no idea what's going on.
Re: Sounds like jealousy shoe is on the other foot....gimmeapuckOctober 20 2004, 22:22:20 UTC
You are wrong. I have every idea of what is going on. I'm not bashing your online relationship, and yes I am standing up for my sister because that's what you do for those you care about. I wouldn't have even made a comment at all had you not made your karma and jealousy comments at the end. There's no good in wishing harm and sadness on others. It's not that she doesn't have the guts to stand up for herself, I just don't think she feels the need.
She is not giving any shit to people with online relationships, she is the most supportive friend I can imagine. I would never have met the one I love if Sarah hadn't convinced me.
I've never heard Sarah judge others for developing feelings for someone online - and I know this personally because I'm one of those people. No, I don't have an online relationship, because I don't believe in them - not under normal circumstances. But I do believe that it's possible to have feelings for someone you've not met face to face.
Sarah and Chris' situation is a bit different than most. If she could have met him months ago, she would have, but currently this isn't possible. Rest assured, it will happen as soon as it IS possible.
Not to be judgemental myself, but it sounds to me like you might need to take a dose of reality and grow up just a bit. If you're happy, go on with your happiness and don't wish harm on other people. That's just immature and pathetic.
Speaking of being hypocritical, your little karma comment just might bring you your own.
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Yeah, what she said!
::crosses arms::
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don't get used to that, there are plenty of kicks awaiting you lol ;)
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