in my opinion...
guys are so perfect in some ways. some know just what to say to a girl to get her to fuck him and the others just feel themselves up in front of a computer to a woman he will probably never get a taste of in his life. with that, some guys think that their computer research tells them everything about how to "woo" a girl, or how to have sex with a porn star. just watch porn. it's very...well you learn a lot. these girls are not jenna jameson, although most wished that we could be. most dont know what to do, so in the heat of the moment, give in and are willing to expirement. then they think, "oh my god. i did that. does that make me a horrible person? am i a whore now that i gave into a guys act? do all guys have the same kinky thoughts?" i think some fetishes really are deeply rooted aspects of character, others are just phases: until you get fucked in the ass/tied down and pissed on/any other weird fetish that someone is in to, you will obsess about it. once you've indulged for some period and gotten it out of your system, move on. a lot of girls think that's it's wrong to openly say sex is good. a good sex life puts a smile on your face, whether you actually like the person or not. i know the names that people call us for any sexual thing they find out about, like whore, hooker, bitch, slut, hoe, call girl, prostitute,hustler, booty call,tramp, bimbo,stripper, a girl without a future, blahblahblah the list is never ending. but fuck, most of these guys are the ones who dont get anything but their own pleasure from "rosey palms". so they dont need to look down on something they dont know shit about. none of this probably makes any sense, but my thoughts...there's just too many of them.