(This entry is mostly about boyslash, and not so much femslash or het, which I've read less and not noticed the issues as much.)
A conversation over in
kalpurna's journal about power dynamics and ass-fucking
here -- while pretty interesting on its own! -- has sent my thoughts on a vaguely related tangent. (
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The other thing about the power dynamic issue is that making sex be consciously about power dynamics, for the characters, on an intellectual level, just doesn't make sense. I don't really care whether it's we-must-trade-topping-and-bottoming-because-we-are-equals or I-am-in-charge-so-I-am-always-going-to-be-pitching; that's just not how it works. Most people don't really think about sex that they are having in that way. They may be aware of those issues, and those issues may inform their sexual choices, but most of the time, when one is having sex, the thought process is more along the lines of "HOT. WANT. NOW."
So yes! By all means! Have Ray want to fuck Fraser up the ass because he wants to take some measure of control! The author can know that that's what's going on, but it's way more believable for Ray, the character, to be thinking "Fraser just looks so goddamned hot flat on his face and moaning while I pin him to the bed." Not, "I'm going to fuck Fraser so that I can take control." HORNY PEOPLE ARE NOT THAT RATIONAL.
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Meanwhile Ray is going, "Mmm. Mountie cock."
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Ahahahahahaha. That is F/K in a NUTSHELL.
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Oh, wait, that wasn't a story with a word count of sixty? Oops.
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DYING of laughter, here. This is the best example of a story that must be written EVER. Could Ray actually say, "Mmm. Mountie cock," out loud? Please?
*overuses capitals when tired*
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