chastity
Arecee purchased a CB3000 for me! I had no idea. Apparently it arrived on Friday while I was away. She showed it to me for the first time on Sunday.
We tried for a several minutes to put it on, but without success. There are lots of parts and pieces. After much fiddling and figuring out which way the ring goes, I was starting to get semi erect from all the fondling. Well, maybe the new toy and her presence had something to do with that too. :-) I did the ring. She tried to slip the tube on, and the directions she read said to use some lube, and by that time, maybe 3 or 4 tries, it just wouldn't fit. It was more laughter than frustration, I'm happy to say. It's smaller than I thought, and even the beginning of erection makes it too small. We ended up having sex... pretty much the opposite of chastity!
She put it away and we talked a while about where we're going with this. I was surprised she actually bought it. She was surprised I was surprised. We've talked about trying this over the years, and usually it's been our consensus it's probably too much maintenance. My position has been that I'm willing to submit (and we do indeed do many other much lighter dominance/submission things), but if we're going to get into chastity, it has to come from her. Even though we've talked about this many times, she's never actually purchased one... until now. She was surprised I didn't think she would, even though that's been the case every other time the chastity subject has come up.
We talked about where we're going. She said not 24/7. She wants to just experiment for now. She mentioned she was interested in doing things like tying my hands while it's off, showering together and putting it back on me before leaving for work. She really does seem excited about it, which scares me a little. My position is still willing to submit and go where she wants to take it, but the direction really does have to come from her. Of course, it remains to be seen how this really works out, if it'll get used a few times and join the collection of other toys that only get used once in a great while, or turn into a regular practice? But for now, it hasn't even been fully on me yet.
I'm seen numerous very hot erotic chastity play stories over the years. "Mistress seduces inexperienced submissive" and "Wife discovers husband cheating and forces chastity (and lots humiliating acts)" seem to be common themes. Hot erotic fiction. Some even claim to be factual, often toned down a bit. Well, at least so far, even just figuring out how to get the damn thing on, dealing with erection caused by fondling and sexual tension is not a simple matter. I always knew those stories and many people's supposedly factual accounts of chastity play were really over-the-top, but now having tried to just simply get the damn thing on, the disparity between fantasy and reality is seems even greater than I suspected.
We tried for a several minutes to put it on, but without success. There are lots of parts and pieces. After much fiddling and figuring out which way the ring goes, I was starting to get semi erect from all the fondling. Well, maybe the new toy and her presence had something to do with that too. :-) I did the ring. She tried to slip the tube on, and the directions she read said to use some lube, and by that time, maybe 3 or 4 tries, it just wouldn't fit. It was more laughter than frustration, I'm happy to say. It's smaller than I thought, and even the beginning of erection makes it too small. We ended up having sex... pretty much the opposite of chastity!
She put it away and we talked a while about where we're going with this. I was surprised she actually bought it. She was surprised I was surprised. We've talked about trying this over the years, and usually it's been our consensus it's probably too much maintenance. My position has been that I'm willing to submit (and we do indeed do many other much lighter dominance/submission things), but if we're going to get into chastity, it has to come from her. Even though we've talked about this many times, she's never actually purchased one... until now. She was surprised I didn't think she would, even though that's been the case every other time the chastity subject has come up.
We talked about where we're going. She said not 24/7. She wants to just experiment for now. She mentioned she was interested in doing things like tying my hands while it's off, showering together and putting it back on me before leaving for work. She really does seem excited about it, which scares me a little. My position is still willing to submit and go where she wants to take it, but the direction really does have to come from her. Of course, it remains to be seen how this really works out, if it'll get used a few times and join the collection of other toys that only get used once in a great while, or turn into a regular practice? But for now, it hasn't even been fully on me yet.
I'm seen numerous very hot erotic chastity play stories over the years. "Mistress seduces inexperienced submissive" and "Wife discovers husband cheating and forces chastity (and lots humiliating acts)" seem to be common themes. Hot erotic fiction. Some even claim to be factual, often toned down a bit. Well, at least so far, even just figuring out how to get the damn thing on, dealing with erection caused by fondling and sexual tension is not a simple matter. I always knew those stories and many people's supposedly factual accounts of chastity play were really over-the-top, but now having tried to just simply get the damn thing on, the disparity between fantasy and reality is seems even greater than I suspected.