Long time, no update...
So much has happened in the last two months, and I'm never going to get even a fraction of it written well, so here's just a really quick update, really only covering the last 24 hours....
Ar just pounded me really hard this evening. We haven't been doing strapon fucking so often anymore, but seems like the last couple times she's really done it fast and hard and pounded over and over pushing right up to, maybe a little beyond what I can take! Lots of fun, of course. It has been a few weeks since the last time, and she did start out slow pressing it in me, which she reminded me afterward. She also commented I couldn't go very long if she just rammed it in, hurting me, so it may be her self-interest?
She did put the ball gag in my mouth this time, and I can't tell you how nice and comforting that feels in certain moments. She also left it in as we lay on the bed afterward, and as she got on top of me and we had sex. She doesn't talk much and it's so very quiet a lot of the time.
I'd intended to go to a party tonight, but got working on a project around the house and it took a long longer than expected (but turned out really well). Ar had intended to stay home and have "quiet time", but instead when it turned out I wouldn't make the party, she decided to do a little strapon action (we'd talked this morning about maybe in the afternoon, but of course I was working away). Now we're getting a pizza... she's out picking it up since delivery takes forever on Saturday night, and we're going to stay in a crash on the sofa.
The backs of my thighs have been sore today. Last night we went to a small caning gathering, where we all did a 2 hour caning. Not like a normal play party, as it was only couples playing, no socializing... which was strange when the music would stop and the room was quiet except for the sounds of sticks striking skin, minor breathing, and such. Of course, it was a lot of fun. Most of the other couples are into soft, sensual play... which is good. That's not what Ar had in mind for me. I was the only one there in bondage, legs bound together and tied to the bottom of the table in some way I couldn't see, and my arms wrapped around the head support part of our massage table, locked together underneath.
I think it's much more of a bonding moment for the tops. At least I couldn't see much most of the time, as my hair was blocking my view and my hands were bound in a way I couldn't get them to it well. Most of the time, Ar was striking me pretty hard, so I couldn't really do much anyway. Anyway, she noticed most of the others were doing pretty light caning. Also, all the other tops, at least at the start, using canes in both hands. Arecee almost never does that, preferring to use a single cane in her right hand, as she touches me with her left. The other really interesting observation is she really uses the music a lot more than most the other tops, almost like dancing to it (only the dance step is beating my ass and legs with the cane).
The time went by pretty quickly. The first half hour or so was probably what she intended as warmup. Maybe even as long as an hour? I had a cold recently and we haven't played a lot lately, so my skin was more sensitive and I wasn't really quick to get into the submissive mood, to take it all in willingly. Of course, it didn't matter if I wanted to or not, as I was bound to the table. Even without the bondage, there was no way I'd complain, short of some sort of medical emergency, in a social situation like that.
I did get into it after a while, strangely enough I believe when she started hitting quite a bit harder. I'd been resisting for some time, and when the sensations got stronger I no longer could.
It was really fun. The time went by pretty quickly. Some of the music was really great, and Ar really gets a lot more animated and active, striking harder and really putting more passion into play when she's grooving the music. Other times, the music wasn't great, so it was sort of a wait-it-out until it got better again.
At the end, the Pink Floyd song "comfortable numb" came on. I thought "how lame is this?" and "well, it'll be over soon and we'll get something good again". Ar had slowed down, striking hard sometimes. I was feeling awfully masochistic, and said I could talk some really hard strokes if she was going to go so slow. She was only happy to give them to me, at least for a while. I was yelping, little screaming on each one. Then she backed off a bit, and the next song came on. It was Kenny G, or something that sounds just like him. Then it was obvious this was the "aftercare" music! Ar tells me people had been staring at her, whacking me hard. She'd thought the same thing "this slow song will be over soon".
In just a few moments, I got up... and had a serious "munchies" craving and walked in a not-so-straight line to the snacks. Everyone was laying quietly doing sensual aftercare. Guess we don't do that so much... we do a little, but seeing everyone really made an impression. Not so much an impression at that time, but later as we were driving home and talking about it.
Anyway, Ar's back with that pizza, so it's time to wrap this up.
There's been so much amazing play over the last couple months... and maybe, just maybe I'll write of some, but most is so far back it's unlikely I can really do it justice in words at this point.
Ar just pounded me really hard this evening. We haven't been doing strapon fucking so often anymore, but seems like the last couple times she's really done it fast and hard and pounded over and over pushing right up to, maybe a little beyond what I can take! Lots of fun, of course. It has been a few weeks since the last time, and she did start out slow pressing it in me, which she reminded me afterward. She also commented I couldn't go very long if she just rammed it in, hurting me, so it may be her self-interest?
She did put the ball gag in my mouth this time, and I can't tell you how nice and comforting that feels in certain moments. She also left it in as we lay on the bed afterward, and as she got on top of me and we had sex. She doesn't talk much and it's so very quiet a lot of the time.
I'd intended to go to a party tonight, but got working on a project around the house and it took a long longer than expected (but turned out really well). Ar had intended to stay home and have "quiet time", but instead when it turned out I wouldn't make the party, she decided to do a little strapon action (we'd talked this morning about maybe in the afternoon, but of course I was working away). Now we're getting a pizza... she's out picking it up since delivery takes forever on Saturday night, and we're going to stay in a crash on the sofa.
The backs of my thighs have been sore today. Last night we went to a small caning gathering, where we all did a 2 hour caning. Not like a normal play party, as it was only couples playing, no socializing... which was strange when the music would stop and the room was quiet except for the sounds of sticks striking skin, minor breathing, and such. Of course, it was a lot of fun. Most of the other couples are into soft, sensual play... which is good. That's not what Ar had in mind for me. I was the only one there in bondage, legs bound together and tied to the bottom of the table in some way I couldn't see, and my arms wrapped around the head support part of our massage table, locked together underneath.
I think it's much more of a bonding moment for the tops. At least I couldn't see much most of the time, as my hair was blocking my view and my hands were bound in a way I couldn't get them to it well. Most of the time, Ar was striking me pretty hard, so I couldn't really do much anyway. Anyway, she noticed most of the others were doing pretty light caning. Also, all the other tops, at least at the start, using canes in both hands. Arecee almost never does that, preferring to use a single cane in her right hand, as she touches me with her left. The other really interesting observation is she really uses the music a lot more than most the other tops, almost like dancing to it (only the dance step is beating my ass and legs with the cane).
The time went by pretty quickly. The first half hour or so was probably what she intended as warmup. Maybe even as long as an hour? I had a cold recently and we haven't played a lot lately, so my skin was more sensitive and I wasn't really quick to get into the submissive mood, to take it all in willingly. Of course, it didn't matter if I wanted to or not, as I was bound to the table. Even without the bondage, there was no way I'd complain, short of some sort of medical emergency, in a social situation like that.
I did get into it after a while, strangely enough I believe when she started hitting quite a bit harder. I'd been resisting for some time, and when the sensations got stronger I no longer could.
It was really fun. The time went by pretty quickly. Some of the music was really great, and Ar really gets a lot more animated and active, striking harder and really putting more passion into play when she's grooving the music. Other times, the music wasn't great, so it was sort of a wait-it-out until it got better again.
At the end, the Pink Floyd song "comfortable numb" came on. I thought "how lame is this?" and "well, it'll be over soon and we'll get something good again". Ar had slowed down, striking hard sometimes. I was feeling awfully masochistic, and said I could talk some really hard strokes if she was going to go so slow. She was only happy to give them to me, at least for a while. I was yelping, little screaming on each one. Then she backed off a bit, and the next song came on. It was Kenny G, or something that sounds just like him. Then it was obvious this was the "aftercare" music! Ar tells me people had been staring at her, whacking me hard. She'd thought the same thing "this slow song will be over soon".
In just a few moments, I got up... and had a serious "munchies" craving and walked in a not-so-straight line to the snacks. Everyone was laying quietly doing sensual aftercare. Guess we don't do that so much... we do a little, but seeing everyone really made an impression. Not so much an impression at that time, but later as we were driving home and talking about it.
Anyway, Ar's back with that pizza, so it's time to wrap this up.
There's been so much amazing play over the last couple months... and maybe, just maybe I'll write of some, but most is so far back it's unlikely I can really do it justice in words at this point.