Flogging and nipple play
Here's the first of several posts to catch up on play over the last week, starting with flogging and nipple torture with Kay last Friday. Then I'll write of strapon action at home Saturday afternoon, and a very interesting surgical stapling and lights scene with Mistress Abrasion later that night. And again at home, a little bondage Sunday, and a brief hog tie yesterday morning, and a rather hard caning scene last night.
At a Wednesday munch, not the last one but the one before, Kay and I were chatting. She temporarily had access to a nice large play space, for reasons I won't go into here. What better reason to get together and play? We asked Arecee when she arrived at the munch, and she agreed. Yay!! That's actually a little unusual, letting me go play in private. Kay preferred to play with all of us together, but Ar's a busy woman and it wouldn't fit her schedule. So we made plans to all meet up for dinner afterwards instead.
Friday afternoon traffic sucks. We'd figured 3 to 4, and after a minor traffic jam, I arrived just before 4. Kay had a quick errand to run, and I was happy to serve, taking her there and back, narrowly escaping a parking ticket for lingering in a loading zone while she was inside.
We got back and it was time to play. She looked through the toys I'd brought, in two bags. She's fairly new to topping and wanted to practice flogging, and she sorted though the several floggers I'd packed at her request, dividing them into a group to try and a group she didn't feel comfortable throwing yet. It wasn't long before she had to standing near a wall, rubber cuffs on my wrists attached to a couple eye bolts at about waist height.
She started out using one of the nasty rubber floggers, but only twirling it around casually, only very lightly scraping my skin. "Oh no", I though, "so much for warmup". Turns out, she didn't get heavy with that one. Instead, after a while she stopped and did quite a bit of slapping on my ass and sides of my hips, and a little on my back. Ouch. She can really slap hard, especially on my hips. Turns out, this was intended as warmup, I later learned as we talked.
Then she started throwing the heavy, soft leather flogger. Actually, I believe it may be elk. It's very soft. Now she was really throwing it, mostly it seemed in the figure-8 style throwing. Hard to tell for sure. She started going faster, hitting my much harder. Normally that soft one barely feels like much, but some serious thuddy sensations were building up. She had only a little minor wrapping, much less that I'd expected given how new she says she it to flogging, and especially after working so hard for so long with such a heavy flogger. Her arm must be in really good shape. Normally that soft one does very little to me, and yet as she went fast and hard, I started to feel the happy, dizzy flogging feeling. It was kind of funny, as I normally associate those feelings with more intense pain, and that particular flogger doesn't inflict much pain, ever. There was one particularly great stretch of rapid flogging on my back that was really wonderful. Also several stretches of constant striking on my ass and wrapping just a little onto my hips.
Kay eventually switched to a soft braided flogger. It's much lighter, and if thrown just right can sting quite a bit. More flogging with that one, but after a while she stopped. It was time to move on to something else, nipple torture.
She unclipped my wrist cuffs from the wall and took me over to a sofa. We talked a bit, and she tried to put the bicep binder on my arms, behind my back. It's complicated how it works, and I honestly have no idea how. She got it on, though each arm was buckled separately. Somehow Arecee puts it on where it goes around one arm, then the other, and the final pull on the strap makes both arms tighten together at the same time. It's not really possible to get it very tight any other way, but it was on well enough to at least keep my arms pulled tight behind my back, and she had me turn over laying on my arms, on her lap.
She reached into the bag of clips, and the first one she pulled out was the strong metal one with yellow rubber handle. The very worst one! I said "oh my god, that's the worst one, be careful". This was our first time doing nipple torture, and she was concerned, but instead of putting it away she clipped it onto her shirt. She she pulled more out, she clipped all those horrible yellow handle ones on her shirt, and I lay there looking up and her and those clips, fearing the worst.
Not wanting start with that one, she made her second pick from the bag. The long nose plastic one. A pretty close second for the worst! Yikes. I mentioned again how horrible that one was, especially since it clamps so hard on just a tiny spot, and said Ar only uses those on my ears, not my nipples. Kay looked amused, and decided to quickly try it on her own ear to see how bad it was. She tried it for a second, and then said "Ar's a real bitch". It seemed she might not do it, and I assured her it was ok to put on my ear, just to go slow. She did indeed, and I can't tell you how comforting the bondage holding my arms together behind my back felt. She did release her grip on the handle slowly, and as always, the pain was quite intense, seeming to wash all over my body.
She didn't leave it on long, and then started playing with one of the yellow ones on my nipple. She's release it partly, letting some of the pressure pinch on my nipple. It seemed more playful. I do fear those yellow ones, but they've been on me before. They just hurt so much. I insisted it was ok to let me have it. She did. Oh, it hurts a lot. She didn't leave it on very long, and then said it was important to compare to the other side, to see if it was the same. She put it on my other nipple. Yep, painful. Again, not for very long. A little more pinching back on the first one. She was about done with experimenting on nipple pinching. I said I'd be fine with several on me, maybe even asked for 'em. Of course, she called me a slut and said she was done, but maybe another time.
We'd started playing just past 4, and had plans for dinner at 6 with Arecee. She said it was getting later and nearly time to wrap up. We lay together for a while on the sofa. At one point she was up, getting some things, and I reached for a nearby cell phone to check the time. She yelled over at me, saying not to touch it, that I wasn't allowed to check. Kay's rarely dominant and commanding like that with me, and it was quite a surprise. A very welcome surprise! Who knows, maybe as we play more she'll develop her Domme side?
She did have one more thing in store for me, also a little bit dominant. She put the padded bondage mitts on my hands, and then instructed me to try and get dressed. I can't describe what an incredible grin she had the entire time I struggled awkwardly to get my clothes on. She started giggling and laughing, and I started thinking, trying to come up with a strategy. I got my pants, picking them up carefully, trying to press the mitts together tight enough to get a "grip" on them. I managed to get them into position, and I asked a bit what I was and wasn't allowed to do. It wasn't long until I was putting my legs in, popping myself against the cushion. She was surprised I was making such progress. Turns out, I'm not the first she's done this to, and apparently I was doing pretty good. It wasn't long until I had my pants up. Buttoning and zipping turned out to be impossible, though I did spend quite a while pushing the sides together and trying to get that button to go through. Fortunately, my belt was still in, and I was able, with quite a bit of fiddling to get it threaded and pulled tight. Getting the buckle fastened took quite a while, but eventually the hook found the hole and went though. I'd worn a t-shirt, and getting down on the floor, it was pretty easy to get my arms into it, then stand up and let it fall down my arms and work it onto me. I'd worn sandals that slip on easily, so no shoes to tie. She was pretty amazed I'd gotten dressed. With harder play, the dizziness might have made it more interesting, we discussed.
Turned out, we had only a few minutes until dinner with Arecee, but the restaurant was close by. We packed up in a hurry, and as we rushed over, Ar called and said she was running late, just leaving work and would be over in 5 minutes. What a relief for us both!
Dinner was really good, and it was nice getting to talk. Kay and Ar talked quite a bit about how much I can take, how far she could try pushing me. We talked about playing again, and Kay said what she really wanted was a co-topping scene with Arecee, to be able to go harder and be able to ask questions about how to interpret my responses. We talked about doing this at a play party the next night, which didn't pan out. Turns out, we did end up with the 3 of us playing together just last night (yeah, I'm now a week and a day behind on writing.....)
It certainly was fun, and more than anything, the two hours seemed to just slip away so very, very quickly. Maybe with some luck we'll get to do it again with more time to play?
At a Wednesday munch, not the last one but the one before, Kay and I were chatting. She temporarily had access to a nice large play space, for reasons I won't go into here. What better reason to get together and play? We asked Arecee when she arrived at the munch, and she agreed. Yay!! That's actually a little unusual, letting me go play in private. Kay preferred to play with all of us together, but Ar's a busy woman and it wouldn't fit her schedule. So we made plans to all meet up for dinner afterwards instead.
Friday afternoon traffic sucks. We'd figured 3 to 4, and after a minor traffic jam, I arrived just before 4. Kay had a quick errand to run, and I was happy to serve, taking her there and back, narrowly escaping a parking ticket for lingering in a loading zone while she was inside.
We got back and it was time to play. She looked through the toys I'd brought, in two bags. She's fairly new to topping and wanted to practice flogging, and she sorted though the several floggers I'd packed at her request, dividing them into a group to try and a group she didn't feel comfortable throwing yet. It wasn't long before she had to standing near a wall, rubber cuffs on my wrists attached to a couple eye bolts at about waist height.
She started out using one of the nasty rubber floggers, but only twirling it around casually, only very lightly scraping my skin. "Oh no", I though, "so much for warmup". Turns out, she didn't get heavy with that one. Instead, after a while she stopped and did quite a bit of slapping on my ass and sides of my hips, and a little on my back. Ouch. She can really slap hard, especially on my hips. Turns out, this was intended as warmup, I later learned as we talked.
Then she started throwing the heavy, soft leather flogger. Actually, I believe it may be elk. It's very soft. Now she was really throwing it, mostly it seemed in the figure-8 style throwing. Hard to tell for sure. She started going faster, hitting my much harder. Normally that soft one barely feels like much, but some serious thuddy sensations were building up. She had only a little minor wrapping, much less that I'd expected given how new she says she it to flogging, and especially after working so hard for so long with such a heavy flogger. Her arm must be in really good shape. Normally that soft one does very little to me, and yet as she went fast and hard, I started to feel the happy, dizzy flogging feeling. It was kind of funny, as I normally associate those feelings with more intense pain, and that particular flogger doesn't inflict much pain, ever. There was one particularly great stretch of rapid flogging on my back that was really wonderful. Also several stretches of constant striking on my ass and wrapping just a little onto my hips.
Kay eventually switched to a soft braided flogger. It's much lighter, and if thrown just right can sting quite a bit. More flogging with that one, but after a while she stopped. It was time to move on to something else, nipple torture.
She unclipped my wrist cuffs from the wall and took me over to a sofa. We talked a bit, and she tried to put the bicep binder on my arms, behind my back. It's complicated how it works, and I honestly have no idea how. She got it on, though each arm was buckled separately. Somehow Arecee puts it on where it goes around one arm, then the other, and the final pull on the strap makes both arms tighten together at the same time. It's not really possible to get it very tight any other way, but it was on well enough to at least keep my arms pulled tight behind my back, and she had me turn over laying on my arms, on her lap.
She reached into the bag of clips, and the first one she pulled out was the strong metal one with yellow rubber handle. The very worst one! I said "oh my god, that's the worst one, be careful". This was our first time doing nipple torture, and she was concerned, but instead of putting it away she clipped it onto her shirt. She she pulled more out, she clipped all those horrible yellow handle ones on her shirt, and I lay there looking up and her and those clips, fearing the worst.
Not wanting start with that one, she made her second pick from the bag. The long nose plastic one. A pretty close second for the worst! Yikes. I mentioned again how horrible that one was, especially since it clamps so hard on just a tiny spot, and said Ar only uses those on my ears, not my nipples. Kay looked amused, and decided to quickly try it on her own ear to see how bad it was. She tried it for a second, and then said "Ar's a real bitch". It seemed she might not do it, and I assured her it was ok to put on my ear, just to go slow. She did indeed, and I can't tell you how comforting the bondage holding my arms together behind my back felt. She did release her grip on the handle slowly, and as always, the pain was quite intense, seeming to wash all over my body.
She didn't leave it on long, and then started playing with one of the yellow ones on my nipple. She's release it partly, letting some of the pressure pinch on my nipple. It seemed more playful. I do fear those yellow ones, but they've been on me before. They just hurt so much. I insisted it was ok to let me have it. She did. Oh, it hurts a lot. She didn't leave it on very long, and then said it was important to compare to the other side, to see if it was the same. She put it on my other nipple. Yep, painful. Again, not for very long. A little more pinching back on the first one. She was about done with experimenting on nipple pinching. I said I'd be fine with several on me, maybe even asked for 'em. Of course, she called me a slut and said she was done, but maybe another time.
We'd started playing just past 4, and had plans for dinner at 6 with Arecee. She said it was getting later and nearly time to wrap up. We lay together for a while on the sofa. At one point she was up, getting some things, and I reached for a nearby cell phone to check the time. She yelled over at me, saying not to touch it, that I wasn't allowed to check. Kay's rarely dominant and commanding like that with me, and it was quite a surprise. A very welcome surprise! Who knows, maybe as we play more she'll develop her Domme side?
She did have one more thing in store for me, also a little bit dominant. She put the padded bondage mitts on my hands, and then instructed me to try and get dressed. I can't describe what an incredible grin she had the entire time I struggled awkwardly to get my clothes on. She started giggling and laughing, and I started thinking, trying to come up with a strategy. I got my pants, picking them up carefully, trying to press the mitts together tight enough to get a "grip" on them. I managed to get them into position, and I asked a bit what I was and wasn't allowed to do. It wasn't long until I was putting my legs in, popping myself against the cushion. She was surprised I was making such progress. Turns out, I'm not the first she's done this to, and apparently I was doing pretty good. It wasn't long until I had my pants up. Buttoning and zipping turned out to be impossible, though I did spend quite a while pushing the sides together and trying to get that button to go through. Fortunately, my belt was still in, and I was able, with quite a bit of fiddling to get it threaded and pulled tight. Getting the buckle fastened took quite a while, but eventually the hook found the hole and went though. I'd worn a t-shirt, and getting down on the floor, it was pretty easy to get my arms into it, then stand up and let it fall down my arms and work it onto me. I'd worn sandals that slip on easily, so no shoes to tie. She was pretty amazed I'd gotten dressed. With harder play, the dizziness might have made it more interesting, we discussed.
Turned out, we had only a few minutes until dinner with Arecee, but the restaurant was close by. We packed up in a hurry, and as we rushed over, Ar called and said she was running late, just leaving work and would be over in 5 minutes. What a relief for us both!
Dinner was really good, and it was nice getting to talk. Kay and Ar talked quite a bit about how much I can take, how far she could try pushing me. We talked about playing again, and Kay said what she really wanted was a co-topping scene with Arecee, to be able to go harder and be able to ask questions about how to interpret my responses. We talked about doing this at a play party the next night, which didn't pan out. Turns out, we did end up with the 3 of us playing together just last night (yeah, I'm now a week and a day behind on writing.....)
It certainly was fun, and more than anything, the two hours seemed to just slip away so very, very quickly. Maybe with some luck we'll get to do it again with more time to play?