Last night Ar gave me a flogging followed by some whipping.....
We'd talked earlier about making a "play date", which means we're going to play shortly after she gets home... before we do dinner, get involved in working on stuff, or end up laying on the sofa watching a dvd. She asked if I had any special requests. I asked if she had anything she really wanted. She asked again, and it was clear she expected me to come up with something. I had actually been thinking of getting a flogging... seems like we've done so much caning and spanking lately. Well, er, not entirely, we did do a quick flogging & whipping only last Saturday at the beginning of Sly's party. But still, I'd been craving it a bit, and so flogging is was.
Our place doesn't really have much room for flogging, and she said right away I'd have to hold myself up instead of being tied like we'd usually do on a cross as a play party. We talked about where to make room, and I ended up in the living room moving the sofa and coffee table while Ar got on the computer briefly and changed out of her work clothes.
Pretty soon, I was standing against the wall and she was throwing the flogger through the air. She'd gone into the bedroom and grabbed a big handful of the floggers and her two single tails. She started with the gold color one, made by Wian, which she won at the RCDC birthday bash last year. She went with that one for some time, and in a while my skin was starting to warm up. That one has some sensation, just a bit of sting, and just enough weight for a bit of thuddy impact, but overall pretty easy to take.
The she switched to the soft braided one for a while, and then went to the heavy one from Happy Tails. That heavy one is pretty thuddy but also carries a bit of sensation. Her arm is so much stronger than it was years ago, and she can pretty much keep throwing that big heavy one as long as she likes. I kept thinking, well, wondering, is her arm going to get tired? Apparently not! We'd been going for quite a while. I was into the rhythm of it. She'd put the little boom box on the kitchen table nearby, playing music which has was throwing to most of the time.
Then she switched to the nasty braided flogger. Oh I love that one! It stings so much. When she first starts striking me with it, it feels like little knives are scratching my skin and maybe cutting into my back. It really is very severely stingy. Definitely not a warmup toy, but I was SO ready.
It wasn't long until I was dizzy, seemingly moving back and forth with my body pressed tight against the wall. In hindsight, during warming and soft flogging or whipping, I pretty much stand on my feet and shift my weight back and forth from one leg to the other. The sensations are fun, if not so intense, and I'm quite well able to think about shifting my weight, how I'm standing, how I'm positioning myself, and so on.
Not so when the intense, rhythmic stinging begins. I get dizzy, weak the knees, and unable to think about anything else other than the sensations shooting all through me. Though I'm not so aware of it at the time, I think I end up leaning my weight on the wall, or cross, or whatever's in front of me. I'm not sure if I move or if the swaying around feeling is all just in my head. In fact, in those moments it's quite overwhelming and I'm not so such of anything 100%.
But is sure is fun. She kept throwing the nasty braided flogger for quite a while. How long, well, who knows? She probably does, but I have no idea. It did seem to go for quite a while, for which I'm so, so glad.
Then she switched to the 3 foot whip. She started flicking me lightly, much like she would for warmup. Or maybe it really was a bit harder, but felt like soft warmup considering the stinging flogging I'd just been taking. After a moment, as the dizziness started fading and my awareness was coming back into the room, I said something about already being very warmed up and able to take quite a bit more than this.
She seemed only happy to immediately start giving it to me. I had started to feel a little longing for the braided flogger which had been so much fun, but in moments I felt much more of the cracker lashing across my back. It's such a concentrated pain, so precise, so intense in one spot, so unlike the broad brushing pain of the flogger.
Soon she was whipping faster, and occasionally giving me little snaps of the whip. I must have been moaning quite a lot, and with each one I recall letting out such a spontaneous scream. Or maybe more like a quick yelp? Each flick was so sudden, so unexpected, but yet sort-of expected. She was really giving it to me now, and oh what fun!
The whipping went on for a while, and then suddenly she stopped and was holding my from behind. She pulled me off the wall, which had certainly been supporting me for some time, and indeed my head was spinning. She told me to bend my knees, and I remember know, for some reason I can't possibly understand, not being able to obey for a while. She dragged me around a bit, still on my feet, but where I was unable to see, moving backwards. Suddenly we dropped together, and before the fear of suddenly falling could set in, where was on the sofa. What an incredible surprise that was! Even that we had a sofa!! Amazing what a good whipping will do to me :-)
We lay there, and after a few minutes I was able to shift around. I was laying on my back, shoulders on her lap as she held me. We started kissing, softly at first, but then quite passionately. Wow, still a bit dizzy, how amazing that was. So intense. Not at all like normal kissing. Next thing I knew I was so horny from it. She reached down and started slapping my penis back and forth to the beat of the music, still playing from the little boom box over on the kitchen table. It occurred to me at that moment how I was completely naked, as I almost always am around the house, yet how it seemed a little strange since we usually do flogging and whipping at play parties where I typically wear a thong while in the dungeon.
We lay there a while longer, more kissing, more very light CBT (well, not the "B" part), and talked for a bit.
It was around 7:30 by this time, and we talked about what to do for the rest of the evening. We decided to go out, and perhaps shop for a new stereo to play music while for play. That little boom box is pretty pathetic, and recently it's developed some problem where one of the speakers seems to stop and start working again. Annoying.
I won't bore you with the mundane details, but basically, we went to Fry's and weren't impressed and nobody was willing to help us. So we went to Circuit City, and got there around 8:30, only half an hour before they close. They had a little 5-disc CD player we'd seen at Fry's, and a helpful but not terribly knowledgeable young woman actually helped us. So many choices, so many things not quite what we wanted, and so many unknowns about which things could work together? Finally, just at 9, we made decisions and bought that little 5 disc player and a set of several speakers to go with it, and some expensive brackets to mount the speakers nicely from the ceiling (we don't have room elsewhere).
(oh, by the way, she invited me to sleep with her in the bed again last night, so no cramped up cage time)
This morning I set it all up, most of which was getting up on the ladder and mounting those brackets on the ceiling. It sounds really, really nice. The speakers are pretty amazing for being so small. And really, really amazing compared to that little old boom box (which usually sat on the floor rather than having speakers placed in the corners of the room). I spent a while just listening to a couple CDs, one of which we played to many times and it has all sorts of little sounds I'd never really noticed before.
Ar came home and tried it out, and I handed her the paddle and lay on the bed next to her as the beat started up on the first track. The bass is really nice and she was spanking me lightly right away! Just a little light spanking for a couple minutes, nothing like a really serious spanking scene.
Well, she's relaxing in the tub right now as I write all this, and soon we're going to head out to a play party for the rest of the night. What a lucky boy I get to be sometimes!