Women, Men and the Dating World

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Бог услышал твои молитвы

[andrey_kaminsky]

If I could create the perfect man he would be intelligent, open minded, creative, humorous, kind, adventurous, and most importantly, flexible(с)
I possess all these qualities, except that I'm not flexible enough, yoga is not one of my hobbies and I can't put legs behind my head as you perhaps like:(
And by the way, this flexibility is necessary for the exercise of sexual fantasies, or to save on tickets while traveling by tucking the frend in the luggage:)

Re: Бог услышал твои молитвы

[peacetraveler22]

I'm speaking about a different kind of flexibility, and you know it! :) This is all you have to say? You don't want to give me your thesis on relationships, or tell me once again men and women can't be friends?

Re: Бог услышал твои молитвы

[andrey_kaminsky]

My thesis on the relationship is no less wise than the Bible, and for this reason, it takes the same volume. One of the chapters of this book argues that excessive talkativeness is a disadvantage for the person. But another chapter argues: if this person has the appearance of Deborah Kerr in her youth, she can afford to utter any nonsense.
Men and women can be friends, why not, but it is only an imitation, replacement of full relations. Imitation can't be the goal, but only a temporary substitute for a time, until the goal is reached.

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[peacetraveler22]

Thank you, wise philosopher. :) Who is Deborah Kerr, never heard of her?? I googled her image and she's lovely. I like red/auburn hair on women if it's the natural color. Unusual and striking. Yes, men put up with much more bullshit when a woman is exceptionally beautiful.

Re: Бог услышал твои молитвы

[andrey_kaminsky]

I watched a wonderful movie "Black Narcissus" 1947. This film is not without flaws, such as the еnglishman dressed in silly shorts, but has great beauty. Any mediocre film that has so many beauty will be in the form of a masterpiece.
But this is not the best role of Deborah Kerr. Actress are playing their best roles when they are more than 35 years old and roles of the "prize for the alpha male" are not available to them. Then they stop playing the "body" and begin to play a "personality"

Re: Бог услышал твои молитвы

[peacetraveler22]

Body vs. personality - a common dilemma for some men!! Which to choose??

Re: Бог услышал твои молитвы

[andrey_kaminsky]

Unfortunately, the problem is not only how to choose, but also in how to be the chosen. But I can definitely say that my opinion is leaning toward the personality, as i get older

Re: Бог услышал твои молитвы

[peacetraveler22]

Well you're married so you should not be concerned with such matters, unless you're cheating on your wife. This is normal mental progression as you age. In youth, most men are only concerned with sex, beauty, body, etc. As they mature, they realize other things matter when it comes to long term companionship.

Re: Бог услышал твои молитвы

[andrey_kaminsky]

Age, mainly, improves the character of women and deteriorates the nature of men. This I know for myself. I used to be more flexible, patient, even-tempered .. Now I'm not so bad now , but used to be better.

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[peacetraveler22]

It's not my experience. Most men I know were more stubborn and less patient in youth, but better as they age. So, you are regressing in personal development.

Re: Бог услышал твои молитвы

[andrey_kaminsky]

I agree with you in that part: the man over the years becomes more experienced, more mannered, more predictable. Thus, visible for a woman men's qualities become more pleasing to the eye and to the touch :) But this is only a shell, inside of which a kernel is. The kernel is changing for the worse. Man gets more tricky, calculating and more selfish. And the funny thing in all this is the case that very women spoil the very kernel.
And you're right. I'm regressing in personal development... but progressing in awareness of regressing in personal development:)

Re: Бог услышал твои молитвы

[peacetraveler22]

In what way do women spoil? Awareness of faults, this is good! First step to recovery and change. :)

Re: Бог услышал твои молитвы

[andrey_kaminsky]

Men, especially in youth, eager for beautiful women who are often self-centered and narcissistic. These women quickly teach a man not to be naive and honest and that it is better to be executioner than the victim.
By the way, i thought that watching of film classics is one of the favorite pastimes of americans. Don't you have this hobby?

Re: Бог услышал твои молитвы

[peacetraveler22]

Yes, a lot of Americans watch these classic films. There are entire TV channels dedicated to them, but I have no time. The blog has become my hobby and it's a very time consuming endeavor to create posts and communicate with readers.