This one is ridiculous. If you believe women are worthless after a certain age, or their only value in life is to pop out babies, you're a misogynist. I don't even see how it's open for debate.
We need to find out - worthless for whom and for what.
If somebody says that he does not need older women for a new relationship it just a fair statement. It's like somebody says "I don't buy it". Or like many women say "I don't need a man without enough money".
It does not mean that they are worthless in other roles,
I think that if somebody want a new relationship they should honestly look at themselves though the eyes of other people and find out who they may interest and in what roles.
In Russia there is a proverb - "A good person is not a profession". If somebody is good, romantic, etc. inside their soul this does not make them interesting to other people. People need other people for very well defined roles in their lives.
Yes, I agree. Each person has specific needs, preferences and expectations for a partner. But the person who wrote those comments to me was speaking about ALL women of a certain age. This is misogynistic. "If somebody is good, romantic, etc. inside their soul this does not make them interesting to other people..." such people are of interest to me, because this type of soul outwardly manifests itself in most cases by displaying human traits I find desirable in a man. I know exactly what I can offer a partner - if he wants it, perfect. If not, he can move along...:)) I just make no effort to put myself out there, there's no desire in recent years to do it and make myself vulnerable. When the need arises, I will try again to find a suitable partner. Or, maybe he will suddenly appear in my travels or at the grocery store. Who knows?...:))
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If somebody says that he does not need older women for a new relationship it just a fair statement.
It's like somebody says "I don't buy it".
Or like many women say "I don't need a man without enough money".
It does not mean that they are worthless in other roles,
I think that if somebody want a new relationship they should honestly look at themselves though the eyes of other people and find out who they may interest and in what roles.
In Russia there is a proverb - "A good person is not a profession".
If somebody is good, romantic, etc. inside their soul this does not make them interesting to other people.
People need other people for very well defined roles in their lives.
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