the cicadas are making me deaf

[peaceful_word]

my chest begins to hurt

because I'm unable to breathe

deprived of oxygen,

crying I gasped

and closed my eyes

Comments

[kiana]

... *jaw drop* Why are you people fucking flipping over being added to someone's list? Hide the damn friends of list, and DON'T LOOK AT IT if it bothers you so damn much. It's not like this person can see YOUR posts, it's not like you see their posts unless you come here, so what is the issue?

Lmao. xD Nothing like giving the person who made this journal JUST want they want by flipping out the way you all have. Way to help them in their goal!

[kamera1]

It's not like this person can see YOUR posts

actually i believe this person can see our "friends-only" posts? i'm on this random girls' friends list and i can see her "friends-only" posts (and vice-versa) without being on her friends of list. ... if that made sense. heh. :)

Hope this helps.

[kiana]

http://www.livejournal.com/support/faqbrowse.bml?faqid=35

If someone lists me as a Friend will they see my Friends-Only entries?

No. In order for someone to see your Friends-Only entries you must add him or her to your Friends list and he or she must be logged in.

There is no other way for someone to see your Friends-Only entries. If someone adds you to their Friends list, for example, that does not enable them to see your Friends-Only entries. Note that if you are logged in then you will still be able to see these entries on the Friends pages of such people. This, however, does not mean that they can also see the entries.

For a more complete explanation of how the security settings work, see http://www.livejournal.com/support/faqbrowse.bml?faqid=24.

See also - http://www.livejournal.com/support/faqbrowse.bml?faqid=185

[estrellanina]

That means she has to be on your Friends list. If you haven't added her to your friends list, you shouldn't be able to see her entries unless you go to her journal.

[kamera1]

hm ok. but is there a reason why i can see someone's friends-only entries when i'm not on their friends' of list? i only see this certain girls locked entries when i go to her journal and when i'm logged in. which means she can do the same on my journal...

i love how this has turned into some kind of lj help msgboarad ahaha.

[estrellanina]

That is actually really...weird. o_O It might be a glitch that you should report to LJ Bugs.

[kamera1]

nah. i think i'll like to keep it to myself. :p
haha that's how i found out this girl was talking trash
about me. it was quite a gas to read!

ok so it's good to know that other people haven't
exprienced this. :/

[eir]

If you can see her entries that means that she added you to her list. But that doesn't mean that she can see your entries. You have to add her back first.