If you don't tell the whole truth all the time are you living a lie?
So, I've been getting over/recovering from my need to please everyone, I know right, my ultra people pleasing tendencies are wearing away. Not to say I will kick a poor person on the street or don't think about others only myself, but the little things, like being a doormat to Ballroom dance, or the like, just won't/don't happen anymore, or well they happen less.
Another interesting thing is that I don't feel the need, I'm not compelled to simply tell my life story every day to anyone who will listen. I am really good at not so much keeping things to myself but not needed to tell everything. I hope that I am making a biggest impression and peopel are knowing ME better for this. That since I don't need to say everything I ever did, what I do say means more and thus they know me more. I also don't have the urge to throw my laundry out there so much either. I don't need every girl I know to know who my current objects of affection is, nor do I need approval or advice before I do things I used to ask and ask and mill over.
There is some power in my silence, some mystery, and I hope I come across more genuine than before. That people are really getting to know me, since everything i do doesn't need to be ultra fantastic when I get excited about the really fantastic things, like the History talk on Wednesday, ppl will see that and know it REALLY means something to me.
Another interesting thing is that I don't feel the need, I'm not compelled to simply tell my life story every day to anyone who will listen. I am really good at not so much keeping things to myself but not needed to tell everything. I hope that I am making a biggest impression and peopel are knowing ME better for this. That since I don't need to say everything I ever did, what I do say means more and thus they know me more. I also don't have the urge to throw my laundry out there so much either. I don't need every girl I know to know who my current objects of affection is, nor do I need approval or advice before I do things I used to ask and ask and mill over.
There is some power in my silence, some mystery, and I hope I come across more genuine than before. That people are really getting to know me, since everything i do doesn't need to be ultra fantastic when I get excited about the really fantastic things, like the History talk on Wednesday, ppl will see that and know it REALLY means something to me.