99 Problems... and a bitch is #1
Not a bitch in the girlfriend sense, just a bitch in general...
First of all, I'm friends with a lot of people... and sometimes those friends don't get along with each other, which is fine, because there's just some people that will never get along with each other.. that doesn't bother me. It's when they try to affect YOUR opinions of the other person that it pisses me the FUCK off..
I've always told Anne that if she were to put the choice in front of me to choose between her or my friends, that I would choose my friends. That isn't because I care about my friends more than her, it's because it is completely unfair for someone to put that choice in front of me, and will have choosing the latter. The same goes for my friends if they were to put the choice in front of me, I would automatically choose Anne, for the soul purpose that if they aren't going to be fair to me, then I'm not going to be fair to them.
For instance... Yesterday morning Anne sat at the table with me (as always) and I could FEEL the dirty looks she was getting from one of my friends... I ignored it and tried to talk to Anne about something else, but I could still tell that it was bothering Anne... After Anne had left, and I was still there for a minute, my friend asked me whether or not we were still together, and when I said we were just friends, she basically said that she didn't want Anne at the table because the only reason she was "tolerated" before was because she was my GF... I simply said that I didn't care what she thought, and that Anne was still my friend.. and if she wanted to be with me in the morning then she was going to be whether my friend liked it or not...
You can imagine that this didn't make Anne too happy to hear this either...
It makes me so ANGRY when my friends are like this.. this particular friend has been like this with EVERY girlfriend I've had... What the hell!? She doesn't do this to Joel and Katie, and she's "supposed" to be a better friend to me.. so why the hell is it different for me and the girls I choose!? I could care less what my friends think of my girlfriend... They don't have to date her, right!? Even though Anne and I aren't dating right now we're still close friends, and it's going to stay that way. So just FUCK OFF and let me be...
First of all, I'm friends with a lot of people... and sometimes those friends don't get along with each other, which is fine, because there's just some people that will never get along with each other.. that doesn't bother me. It's when they try to affect YOUR opinions of the other person that it pisses me the FUCK off..
I've always told Anne that if she were to put the choice in front of me to choose between her or my friends, that I would choose my friends. That isn't because I care about my friends more than her, it's because it is completely unfair for someone to put that choice in front of me, and will have choosing the latter. The same goes for my friends if they were to put the choice in front of me, I would automatically choose Anne, for the soul purpose that if they aren't going to be fair to me, then I'm not going to be fair to them.
For instance... Yesterday morning Anne sat at the table with me (as always) and I could FEEL the dirty looks she was getting from one of my friends... I ignored it and tried to talk to Anne about something else, but I could still tell that it was bothering Anne... After Anne had left, and I was still there for a minute, my friend asked me whether or not we were still together, and when I said we were just friends, she basically said that she didn't want Anne at the table because the only reason she was "tolerated" before was because she was my GF... I simply said that I didn't care what she thought, and that Anne was still my friend.. and if she wanted to be with me in the morning then she was going to be whether my friend liked it or not...
You can imagine that this didn't make Anne too happy to hear this either...
It makes me so ANGRY when my friends are like this.. this particular friend has been like this with EVERY girlfriend I've had... What the hell!? She doesn't do this to Joel and Katie, and she's "supposed" to be a better friend to me.. so why the hell is it different for me and the girls I choose!? I could care less what my friends think of my girlfriend... They don't have to date her, right!? Even though Anne and I aren't dating right now we're still close friends, and it's going to stay that way. So just FUCK OFF and let me be...