oh my god!!
i'm surprised that i am posting this entry, maybe it's the 2 glasses of wine that id making me go for it. malcolm and i went for our first marriage counselling session today. it was ok. i don't want to post re the marriage, but the weird thing for me was our counseller. it was a guy i knew, malcolm didn't. i know his daughters, one of whom is my age. he didn't know who iwas until i started talking and then it hit home. my car accident was mentioned... claire, the daughter my age was there the night of my accident...she was one of the two who talkedto me to keep conscious/alive while waiting for the ambulance. i have heard on the grapevine she didn't really recognise me cos of the injuries and the car was so smashed they couldn't be sure it was me. how she recognised me was the cross i wore around my neck. freakishly, i was wearing a similar cross today. i think it is a good thing. he is aware of the effect it had on me and bangor christians...the amount of prayer said to save my life, and may understand how important to me it is to maintain my independance...without it i wouldn't be where/who i am today