This is totally me all the way. I set my sights on a guy, reel him in, push him away, reel him in some more, push him away and so on. I totally play hard to get and don't even realize I'm doing it. Or maybe it's not necessarily playing hard to get but rather just scared shitless of relationships and maybe someones perception of it would be hard to get. Who knows. I am certainly waiting for someone to "slow down for". So far no luck. I've pretty much come to the conclusion no man can handle me.
I don't know - What are the choices? Probably hopelessly in love at first sight/uncontrollable emotional impulses or Completely Avoidant.
What you do sounds exactly like my guy. It hurts - a lot. But not so much, anymore, now that I realize it's about me.
>So far no luck. I've pretty much come to the conclusion no man can handle me.
Aw, I wouldn't come to that conclusion, yet. It's not over 'til it's over. I think it will just take a very sensitive, insightful, and unusual type who "gets" you and won't let you do your usual thing... Someone who sees you and cuts right to the core of your being.
Have you ever read Khalil Gibran's "The Prophet"? I like what he says about love... I think this is what we should all be looking for: http://tyros.leb.net/gibran/index.html
That was so beautiful. I so wish I could feel that way about it and give myself so freely to it. You don't ever get to that point where it's just exhausting mentally and emotionally and because it's mentally and emotionally exhausting you get physically exhausted? When you get to that point don't you just want to be done with it and for once things be easy? Can love ever be easy? Can love ever just happen and when it happens you know that you can trust and you can let this person in? Is that what you would call a soul mate? Do soul mates even exist? Is it even scary when you finally do meet your soul mate? Or are soul mates just this thing that humans have made up in order to popularize marriage and fidelity?
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This is totally me all the way. I set my sights on a guy, reel him in, push him away, reel him in some more, push him away and so on. I totally play hard to get and don't even realize I'm doing it. Or maybe it's not necessarily playing hard to get but rather just scared shitless of relationships and maybe someones perception of it would be hard to get. Who knows. I am certainly waiting for someone to "slow down for". So far no luck. I've pretty much come to the conclusion no man can handle me.
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I don't know - What are the choices? Probably hopelessly in love at first sight/uncontrollable emotional impulses or Completely Avoidant.
What you do sounds exactly like my guy. It hurts - a lot. But not so much, anymore, now that I realize it's about me.
>So far no luck. I've pretty much come to the conclusion no man can handle me.
Aw, I wouldn't come to that conclusion, yet. It's not over 'til it's over. I think it will just take a very sensitive, insightful, and unusual type who "gets" you and won't let you do your usual thing... Someone who sees you and cuts right to the core of your being.
Have you ever read Khalil Gibran's "The Prophet"? I like what he says about love... I think this is what we should all be looking for:
http://tyros.leb.net/gibran/index.html
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There are too many questions.
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