Threats don't stop wedding Seriously, it is 2007 people! It's the 21st century! Our military has been desegregated for about 60 years and our schools for over 50 years. It's been over 30 years since there was any hint of de jure racial discrimination on the books. It just seems that people get much too worked up about other people's lives. They are in love, so leave them the Hell alone and worry about your own life.