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doesntwaltz August 29 2009, 00:47:07 UTC
Maybe she's just got too much of the pregnant brain going on? Come out to dinner with me. I'm sure Ali will remember.

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paramedically August 29 2009, 07:39:11 UTC
She remembered that a year ago this month was when her ex found out she was pregnant. I don't know if I feel like going out now.

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doesntwaltz August 29 2009, 07:45:38 UTC
She... shit. That's definitely not the best thing to be remembering right now. It's always when you don't feel like it, that you should. You still need to meet Rob. I don't want you digging yourself into another hole.

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paramedically August 29 2009, 07:50:47 UTC
Yeah, I mean, it's okay. It is. I'm just being overly sensitive. She's going to meet up with him to talk about Jamie, and I'm not as worried as I could be. She said she got the feeling the guy doesn't want to create us hassles. You want me to meet Rob?

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doesntwaltz August 29 2009, 07:52:08 UTC
You wouldn't be our Andy if you weren't overly sensitive. That's good though, right? You're her dad, Andrew. I haven't even met Jamie yet, but I know. Of course I do.

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paramedically August 29 2009, 07:54:08 UTC
I think it's good. I had the guy painted as a fucker in my head, and I think he was in the past, but she did point out to me that he's been hurt too. I know they need to talk, I just get nervous. You have to meet her, she's beautiful. Wait, are you saying you met Ali?

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doesntwaltz August 29 2009, 07:56:07 UTC
It sounded like a great big mess of hurt from what you told me. Can't really blame either of them for hurting. The important thing is keeping Jamie safe. Huh? No, I just meant that I haven't seen you with Jamie, but I still know you're her dad from what you've told me. I haven't met either of them.

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paramedically August 29 2009, 08:09:45 UTC
I know it must suck for him. I'm not a wanker, it's got to hurt. But he did choose not to be in her life at the most important time when she's aware and learning who is there for her and who loves her. I just don't want her getting screwed up before she has a chance. Okay, well, we should all meet up, and meet each other.

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doesntwaltz August 29 2009, 08:13:04 UTC
She won't if you're there for her. I know she won't be. She's your daughter, Andy. In all the ways that count. We should, definitely. So please, come to dinner with me and Rob on your birthday. I'll pick somewhere kid friendly if Ali and Jamie come.

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paramedically August 29 2009, 08:20:58 UTC
I know, but I guess he is the only one who makes me forget that there is one way I'm not her father. Well, I asked Mum to take her for the night on Saturday so I could take Ali to dinner. Mum loves having her, so I guess it'll just be us... but she said she didn't want to go out. Just me, I guess.

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doesntwaltz August 29 2009, 08:23:58 UTC
I'm sorry, Andy. I really am. But look, now you get the chance to be a biological father to your own baby with Ali. And besides, biological ties don't always mean anything. Look at adoptive families. I'm sorry she won't be able to come, and I'll miss meeting her. But maybe next time? I don't mind if you sulk all through dinner, and I won't even make you have dessert so you can get back to her.

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paramedically August 29 2009, 08:42:00 UTC
I know, and that's awesome. She's got a bump and all. I can't believe I did that. She looks so gorgeous, and hot. I mean, she always does, but there's just something added there now. I don't tell her that a lot though, or she'll probably flush my penis down the toilet while I'm sitting on it. Okay, I'll come out. At least she'll get a break without Jamie, can maybe have some time to herself.

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doesntwaltz August 29 2009, 08:54:03 UTC
You don't tell her she's hot? Why not? Do pregnant women not like hearing it? Good. I know Rob's both scared and looking forward to meeting you. Maybe it'll help to have time to herself?

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paramedically August 29 2009, 09:00:59 UTC
Oh, I do. I just pick my moments. Like, I know if she is wearing certain clothes, she doesn't want to be told she's hot because she's feeling about as hot as Mrs Doubtfire on crack. Or if she has morning sickness, not hot comments can come within a ten mile radius. But then other times, I can just look at her, and she'll jump me there and then.

He's scared? He doesn't have to me. I just want to meet him. He's obviously a nice guy or you wouldn't be bothering with him. And I hope so. She's been tired. I know it's not easy for her. She was barely recovered after having Jamie.

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doesntwaltz August 29 2009, 09:35:24 UTC
Being pregnant sounds complicated, and way too emotional. It's like nine months of PMS.

He thinks you're going to beat him up for treating me wrong. Which is impossible since he doesn't treat me wrong. He's one of the best guys. He's just been hurt. It has to be hard on her body. I'm sure it'll be okay, Andy.

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paramedically August 29 2009, 09:45:23 UTC
It is, but there are some nice bits too. Okay, not very many because I would hate to feel like a pregnant person does, but look what comes at the end!

Hey, as long as he looks after you and treats you how you deserve, I won't have any reason to hurt him. I will, though, if he hurts you.

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