So it's been a while....
It's been crazy lately I guess. Holiday season is upon us so that means work is a little bit more...substantial...I guess. Busier anyways.
My classes have been keeping me busy and I somewhere along the lines obtained a life that gets me out of the house every now and then.
I am/was seeing someone for a little bit. Ending that tonight. I've come across this crazy psychological problem I have where I just can't possibly fathom being tied down. I just feel like I'm too young for that. So much to do with my life and so many people still to meet. Do I really want to be committed to one person just now? It's not even a thing about casual sex...as I have a glaring lack of that. I personally find it unfair to drag someone along with me when I'm sure I don't want the same thing. Thus the bane of my relationship existence. There are other minor things, but it mostly comes down to I'm insane.
The neighbors across the way, I've had to call the complex managers a couple times because it smells of pot...not just smells but it reeks. There is absolutely no escaping it in the hallway. It's horrible. The police came out the other day when I called this last time. I now have the number for Narcotics. So I can call them directly. It's a good chance I'm getting my neighbor, who is much bigger than me, evicted. I kind of worry about retaliation because I think it's obvious it's me. As there are only the two apartments up here....I just don't think I should have to put up with it.
Work...well work is just fucking swell. I had to call Human Resources today to report my immediate supervisor for sexual harassment-hostile environment. So an investigation is going on there, and while I know retaliation can be severely punished...I still worry. The guy is a complete asshole, he leers at all the female employees and their interviews have all pretty much consisted of him staring at their boobs. None of them want to say anything though. I'm not standing for that shit. When he started telling other associates that I need to come out of the closet that was the end of it. I don't have to deal with that. Sexual orientation is a protected class to our company, the employee handbook which we are handed upon hire states it as so. I'm not sure the legal standing, but to my understanding I've got an implied contract stating it as so. I might talk to a couple of the girls, see if they are willing to say something. I've already started the ball rolling on this. Now I just get to sweat it out to see what happens. The thing I fear the most is nothing will come of it, he'll get a slap on the wrist and he'll just be worse, or more careful about who he says something to so it doesn't get back to me. Ugh.
And I just saw Cats the other day for the first time....hence the music.
My classes have been keeping me busy and I somewhere along the lines obtained a life that gets me out of the house every now and then.
I am/was seeing someone for a little bit. Ending that tonight. I've come across this crazy psychological problem I have where I just can't possibly fathom being tied down. I just feel like I'm too young for that. So much to do with my life and so many people still to meet. Do I really want to be committed to one person just now? It's not even a thing about casual sex...as I have a glaring lack of that. I personally find it unfair to drag someone along with me when I'm sure I don't want the same thing. Thus the bane of my relationship existence. There are other minor things, but it mostly comes down to I'm insane.
The neighbors across the way, I've had to call the complex managers a couple times because it smells of pot...not just smells but it reeks. There is absolutely no escaping it in the hallway. It's horrible. The police came out the other day when I called this last time. I now have the number for Narcotics. So I can call them directly. It's a good chance I'm getting my neighbor, who is much bigger than me, evicted. I kind of worry about retaliation because I think it's obvious it's me. As there are only the two apartments up here....I just don't think I should have to put up with it.
Work...well work is just fucking swell. I had to call Human Resources today to report my immediate supervisor for sexual harassment-hostile environment. So an investigation is going on there, and while I know retaliation can be severely punished...I still worry. The guy is a complete asshole, he leers at all the female employees and their interviews have all pretty much consisted of him staring at their boobs. None of them want to say anything though. I'm not standing for that shit. When he started telling other associates that I need to come out of the closet that was the end of it. I don't have to deal with that. Sexual orientation is a protected class to our company, the employee handbook which we are handed upon hire states it as so. I'm not sure the legal standing, but to my understanding I've got an implied contract stating it as so. I might talk to a couple of the girls, see if they are willing to say something. I've already started the ball rolling on this. Now I just get to sweat it out to see what happens. The thing I fear the most is nothing will come of it, he'll get a slap on the wrist and he'll just be worse, or more careful about who he says something to so it doesn't get back to me. Ugh.
And I just saw Cats the other day for the first time....hence the music.