ive been told that im not a good enough person so im doing something about it
a friend told me one day, very honestly and bluntly that im not perfect and that basically im not a good person and that it was making it hard for him to be around me as well as others. what he didnt ask was what was going on with me that might have been the problem. he just told me that i should change my behavior. well im trying to. friday i have
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im sorry if this felt like an attack on you. it wasnt intended that way. this was how i took it and i ended up feeling like shit. you dont know it but you had me in tears. im not saying that what you had said to me wasnt truthful but there are times that being completely blunt with a person whos clearly having problems doesnt help at all.
and then hearing this didnt help either.
weir ds io bhan (12:18:02 PM): for example, my friendship with you has changed and i dont seem to know why or i havent had the chance to really figure it out. the same is true with most of my friends
F00 SAYS (12:18:41 PM): its changed because just like i said, you used to be fun and happy and i dont know what happened
weir ds io bhan (12:19:30 PM): so when i clearly have achange in attitude, nstead of trying to see whats up with me, you distance yourself? like a fair-weather friend?
i still wait for an answer to my question. again, im sorry for upsetting you if i have. ive fucked up alot of things lately. all that i can say is that im trying to make things better now. i know that wont happen overnight. i just ask that you be patient.
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