if it makes you happy, it can't be that bad...
i've gotten pretty good at recognizing when i'm being petty and irrational. i usually manage not to take it out on innocent bystanders, and i can even communicate it effectively when necessary. that's a huge change from who i used to be, i'm happy and proud of my progress. i do not, however, feel obligated in any way to feel less petty and irrational than i currently do, and i think that's healthy. my emotions aren't wrong because someone else (or even i) find them uncomfortable, inconvenient, or unpleasant. emotions aren't ever "wrong."