http://thesocietypages.org/socimages/2008/06/26/how-to-do-masculinity/ This is mostly for posterity because I know I can link it to other people when I am in yet another internet argument.
Anyway, I love Sociological Images. It is a beautiful, beautiful blog, filled with laughter and rage and emotion and pictures of women laughing at salad. Speaking of which: I miss you Sarah Haskins, please come back.