Message in a bottle....
...or on a myspace page. Either way you would hope to get your message across. I clicked on a "friend's" profile and dropped a comment. It basically asked if he remembered me prior to his relationship. I guess he doesn't because he never got back to me. It doesn't really sadden me but makes me feel more like a fool. I use to have a huge crush on this person and even after everything that had happened between us after a certain concert and night of one too many cranberry 151s you'd think that our friendship would have grown. *le sigh* I have made my final attempt to try and continue to be friends and now the time has come to remove him from my life. I understand that he has a girlfriend and all that jazz but aren't your friends suppose to be important in your life too? I can never stand it when someone you hold dear becomes involved in a relationship and they forget that you exist, that is, until that person shits on their heart and then they all of a sudden remember your phone number and want to start hanging out again.
Whenever I've been involved with someone, even with my four year relationship, I always tried to strike a balance between friends, family, and relationship. Your relationship with your significant other is important but don't forget about the people who were there for you before that significant other came into your world and brightened it with lollipops and sunshine. I'm feeling snubbed and I don't like it and I can't imagine anyone who would. Even when my best friend of ten years became involved with his boyfriend he still managed to find time just for us. True, we would all hang out together and have a blast but there were times when you needed to be around your best friend alone. Our lives (me and the 10yr BF) have grown apart because of time and personal journeys but we always managed to at least text or call one another when we feel that maybe we need to re-connect. It's strange. I have been foolish to think that I was important to this other person and it has been forever since we have spoken. I hope he doesn't expect me to be around when this person decides that she doesn't need him in her life.
Whenever I've been involved with someone, even with my four year relationship, I always tried to strike a balance between friends, family, and relationship. Your relationship with your significant other is important but don't forget about the people who were there for you before that significant other came into your world and brightened it with lollipops and sunshine. I'm feeling snubbed and I don't like it and I can't imagine anyone who would. Even when my best friend of ten years became involved with his boyfriend he still managed to find time just for us. True, we would all hang out together and have a blast but there were times when you needed to be around your best friend alone. Our lives (me and the 10yr BF) have grown apart because of time and personal journeys but we always managed to at least text or call one another when we feel that maybe we need to re-connect. It's strange. I have been foolish to think that I was important to this other person and it has been forever since we have spoken. I hope he doesn't expect me to be around when this person decides that she doesn't need him in her life.