help.
the only thing wrong between my girlfriend and i is that we live almost 4 hours apart. There's nothing that either of us can do about it now until she graduates college, so i basically don't think about it and find other things to occupy my time until i visit her or she visits me, which is about every other weekend. this keeps me content enough and the sadness i feel from being away from her is pretty much managed/covered up/forgotten/whatever you want to say, but it blatantly upsets her and is projected onto our relationship, even though it has nothing to do with how we get along as a couple. but it makes her so unhappy that she doesn't really talk anymore, doesn't contribute to our conversations when we talk on the phone, and when she does there's just this horribly negative tone in her voice... one filled with such doubt and speculation that's just absolutely horrifying to hear. the only thing i did wrong was meet her when i live here and she goes to school there, and i just don't know what i can say that can make her any happier. i've tried everything i can think of. i'm open to suggestions.
please?
please?