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Hmmm C tells me today his father has left him a mesage and said they are coming down with friends this weekend. I am quiet with rage. I have made it more than clear that he and his wife are not to be around while I am in labour and they are not to visit for 2 weeks afterwards. This is not just me being spiteful it is about us needing time to adjust and the fact that they are needy judgemental people who won't get off their arses to make tea etc but will whine about the washing up not being done blah blah. My mum at the opposite end of the scale would have cleaned the kitchen while making everyone else tea, this I can cope with lol
His suggestion which I can just about do is to meet them at the beach Sun am take the dogs for a walk and leave when I have had enough lol They are always late and as I said 'needy' and I have no intention of hanging a whole day around them, 'be at the beach at a certain time and if your late then tough' suits me.
I have said that if I go into labour before then/during weekend they will not be visiting us while they are here, C says 'of course, obviously' I say, I'm just making it very obvious so there can be no misunderstanding! I will do all the talking if he's uncomfortable expressing my wishes lol Although the thought of them being around is enough to metaphorically put a cork in it anyway pmsl. Arghhh.
I've been doing 'optimal foetal positioning' this candidly also goes by the name of the 'cat position' AKA stick your arse in the air lol
Still half excited, half terrified.
His suggestion which I can just about do is to meet them at the beach Sun am take the dogs for a walk and leave when I have had enough lol They are always late and as I said 'needy' and I have no intention of hanging a whole day around them, 'be at the beach at a certain time and if your late then tough' suits me.
I have said that if I go into labour before then/during weekend they will not be visiting us while they are here, C says 'of course, obviously' I say, I'm just making it very obvious so there can be no misunderstanding! I will do all the talking if he's uncomfortable expressing my wishes lol Although the thought of them being around is enough to metaphorically put a cork in it anyway pmsl. Arghhh.
I've been doing 'optimal foetal positioning' this candidly also goes by the name of the 'cat position' AKA stick your arse in the air lol
Still half excited, half terrified.