May 03, 2006 03:07
So the problem seems to be...
Finding someone to date.
Dating someone that isn't going to cause your social circle to crash if bad things happen, i.e., dating outside your social circle. Part of doing such a thing involves exposing yourself to different activities regularly in order to garner a place with different people that don't know each other. An ever-expanding circle of not-so-close friends, or acquaintances, that double as one-shot confidantes, tend to help in this matter. Use the bartenders/psychologists skill of getting someone to open up in order to become everyone's favorite ear.
haha.
I feel like I'm giving away secrets. :)