why time doesn't go faster?
I seriously cannot wait for my mother's boyfriend to go back to England. He is driving me crazy! And my mom is always mad at me because of him.
Like what happened just now: During the week, he and I do the dishes and my mom does them on the weekend. Last week, I did them on Monday, Wednesday and Friday -- though my mom ended up doing them on Friday because she was bored (seriously) -- and this week, it was his turn to do them Mon, Wed and Fri. So, when I felt for my grandma's to have lunch with her and with my mom like we always do, I didn't do the dishes thinking he'd do it... But he didn't. And when I come back home he says it's my turn because I didn't do the dishes on Friday and he was the last one to do them (on Thursday). I said no, it's not my turn because, following the schedule from last week, it's his turn, even if my mom did the dishes on Friday. He started arguing and acting like a little kid, he said "whatever" and went to do the dishes all angry. And my mom comes all pissed off saying that I need to stop acting like a spoiled brat and that she doesn't want to talk to me today. I'm like WTF?!! o.O... Just because it was his turn to do the dishes and he didn't want to do them? Seriously? Besides, I'm thinking now that if I owe someone a favor, that's my mom for doing the dishes on Friday, right? So the logical thing to do would be to ask me to do the dishes on Saturday or Sunday (which I'll be doing whether she asks or not, because I owe her), not get mad at me because it wasn't my turn.
It's always like this with him. I understand he has a problem (TDH or something like that) and that he gets very stubborn and doesn't see the logic, but my mom does and she should know that I don't deserve to be yelled at this time.
I swear I don't know what she saw in him. He gives her more pain than happiness, seriously. He's constantly worrying her with his problems. He knows that when my mom's worried (and usually with other people's problem, which are the ones that affect her the most) she can't sleep and her neck and head hurt and yet he keeps telling her and worrying her more and more.
... That was a long rant. Sorry if it bored you, but I needed to get it out of my system; though I'm not feeling any better... Maybe I should go shopping or something, leave the house and all this tension for a while.
Like what happened just now: During the week, he and I do the dishes and my mom does them on the weekend. Last week, I did them on Monday, Wednesday and Friday -- though my mom ended up doing them on Friday because she was bored (seriously) -- and this week, it was his turn to do them Mon, Wed and Fri. So, when I felt for my grandma's to have lunch with her and with my mom like we always do, I didn't do the dishes thinking he'd do it... But he didn't. And when I come back home he says it's my turn because I didn't do the dishes on Friday and he was the last one to do them (on Thursday). I said no, it's not my turn because, following the schedule from last week, it's his turn, even if my mom did the dishes on Friday. He started arguing and acting like a little kid, he said "whatever" and went to do the dishes all angry. And my mom comes all pissed off saying that I need to stop acting like a spoiled brat and that she doesn't want to talk to me today. I'm like WTF?!! o.O... Just because it was his turn to do the dishes and he didn't want to do them? Seriously? Besides, I'm thinking now that if I owe someone a favor, that's my mom for doing the dishes on Friday, right? So the logical thing to do would be to ask me to do the dishes on Saturday or Sunday (which I'll be doing whether she asks or not, because I owe her), not get mad at me because it wasn't my turn.
It's always like this with him. I understand he has a problem (TDH or something like that) and that he gets very stubborn and doesn't see the logic, but my mom does and she should know that I don't deserve to be yelled at this time.
I swear I don't know what she saw in him. He gives her more pain than happiness, seriously. He's constantly worrying her with his problems. He knows that when my mom's worried (and usually with other people's problem, which are the ones that affect her the most) she can't sleep and her neck and head hurt and yet he keeps telling her and worrying her more and more.
... That was a long rant. Sorry if it bored you, but I needed to get it out of my system; though I'm not feeling any better... Maybe I should go shopping or something, leave the house and all this tension for a while.