Jul 19, 2005 00:50
Too much drama in my life lately which I do not need.
It sucks to be perceived as the perpetual evil wrong-doer when all your remedial actions are deliberately misconstrued. Giving a person some space and time to cool off is perceived as nonchalance; to advocate live and let live means that you have no principles; pretending things never happened and hopefully things blow over automatically labels you as plastic.
Even posting comments on other people's LJs, in our well-intentioned haste to offer words of comfort or encouragement, are we unknowingly taking sides and hurting the other party concerned when we have only heard one end of the story?
Do things really have to reach a point of no return...