Crazy...
Eradea has been making the most egregious claims about me "refusing" to contribute financially, as well as housework (there is exactly zero truth to those allegations); that I was "abusive" despite constantly bending over backwards to constantly accomodate her mercurial dear responses to almost anything; claims that I subjugated her and ridiculed her attempts to be an "independent" adult (this in spite of four years of expressions of gratitude from her for taking care of her emotional and mental problems, getting her to stop cutting herself and helping her overcome her anorexia)... All this and so much more ridiculous tripe. When pressed, she has not been able to back up her allegations with a single actual incident to support a one of them, much less showing a preponderance of facts to substantiate any of her allegations. Anyone who knows me at all knows how ridiculous such claims are. In fact, I am currently caring for three children five days a week, cooking them all dinner nightly and cleaning and maintaining the house, as well as escorting them to medical appointments and after-school functions. Hardly something that could be done by the person she describes. Whether her current personalities are buying a line of horse shit fed to her by a personality who finds it expedient to lie to her, is schizophrenic, or something else, I am not sure. But she has knowingly made herself a threat to myself and my survival, and I never sit still for that sort of crap. I hope she gets herself sorted out before she winds up in jail or something to that effect. But the violent, lying, hateful stranger she has become is not someone or something I could ever love.
In other news, things are going incredibly well for me with my new family. Rachel and I grow closer and more deeply in love every day. It is incredibly wonderful to finally be with an emotionally and mentally healthy adult who handles her own crap, who is sexually healthy and demonstrative, and who is in all ways what I have been missing for some time, much longer than I was with Eradea, in fact. It's just that much more startling a contrast where Eradea is concerned, though.
More soon, kids. Promise. I'll close with a brief word that I had a family Thanksgiving this year for the first Time, as part of a real family, and it was GREAT. :D