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[ovate14]

A few days ago my wife was in the mood for sex and I reminded her that she had decided a couple days before that I wouldn't be getting lucky in any way for quite a while. So at my suggestion, I fucked her using the new strap on dildo while my little pecker was trapped in it's chastity cage

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[skitten]

chastity cage? got a thing for sex denial?

[ovate14]

Why yes, I do. I've gotten into tease and denial pretty heavy lately, kind of an offshoot of my cuckold fantasies. Bought a chastity cage backin Jan and both me and my wife have been having fun playing with it.

[skitten]

hmmmm... that's interesting... I can hold out for quite a while but I don't know what the fringe benefits are :)

[ovate14]

To me, holding out is different from the tease and denial. I bring her to orgasm in various ways, we have sex, I maturbate, but I rarely get to climax during all of that very often. So it keeps me on the edge and wanting it even more, and enjoying the climax all that much more when I do.
So not only does it play into cuckold fantasies (denying me due to being inadequiate, etc), but it makes climaxing easier and better when I am allowed.

[skitten]

so how does someone not let you climax? isn't that an autonomic action that you don't really have any control over?

[ovate14]

Well, she tells me I don't get to climax (in reality, I usually tell her when we start to deny me) and I stop before I climax. I've always had quite a bit of control over it.

[bart_calendar]

It's not that hard. Your wife or girlfriend simply tells you to stop before you climax or there will be hell to pay.

Lots of couples in female led relationships will have intercourse will have the male stop penetration when he is close to climaxing and then stimulate her in other ways. Others restrict the sexual contact to him performing oral sex on her and him masturbating once in a while when she's in the mood. If the guy doesn't have that level of sell control then there is always the chastity cage.

It's all very, very hot.

[ovate14]

Exactly.
And yes, very hot!

[skitten]

just wonderig- do you wear this chastity cage during therest of the day? does she get to decide when you take it off?

[ovate14]

I wear it from when I take a shower in the mornings until I'm allowed to take it off ins the evenings, I don't wear during the night.
Technically, she decides when I get to take it off, but she wouldn't tell me no if I asked. She's nervous about having the authority and using it, hopefully she'll get over that.