quandry
have you ever wanted to be with someone so badly that you would date the someone from a the gender you're not attracted to?
only lightly related vein, promise.....
In my ballroom dance class, there is a guy named Conrad, he's about a head taller than me, quite, self-possessed, looks like a marine from behind and he always wears a grey suit with blue and light gray pin stripes. And that's about all I know about him.
That and he likes me. And, he's actually relatively attractive, and I'm not quite sure whether to consider it or not.
It's one of those, attractive man, seems interesting, and probably a good 'type' to date people who i'd rather enjoy the idea of entertaining for a while. But, i'm still not sure what to do about it. Me being, well me and all.
I don't know if it's fair to go into a situation thinking it's just for fun, and knowing certain things that i do know about myself without telling him, because i wouldn't tell him.
So, rather than make the call myself, i thought i'd ask opinions. would i be a bad person to encourage said boy and see what may come, or should i stay distant and be fair and not encourage him when he doesn't know what he'd be getting into, and probably not getting out of me. (no, this isn't about sex, more intamacy than anything, dirty minded bastards....! ;-p )
ideas, opinions?
only lightly related vein, promise.....
In my ballroom dance class, there is a guy named Conrad, he's about a head taller than me, quite, self-possessed, looks like a marine from behind and he always wears a grey suit with blue and light gray pin stripes. And that's about all I know about him.
That and he likes me. And, he's actually relatively attractive, and I'm not quite sure whether to consider it or not.
It's one of those, attractive man, seems interesting, and probably a good 'type' to date people who i'd rather enjoy the idea of entertaining for a while. But, i'm still not sure what to do about it. Me being, well me and all.
I don't know if it's fair to go into a situation thinking it's just for fun, and knowing certain things that i do know about myself without telling him, because i wouldn't tell him.
So, rather than make the call myself, i thought i'd ask opinions. would i be a bad person to encourage said boy and see what may come, or should i stay distant and be fair and not encourage him when he doesn't know what he'd be getting into, and probably not getting out of me. (no, this isn't about sex, more intamacy than anything, dirty minded bastards....! ;-p )
ideas, opinions?