Oct 21, 2005 05:51
Alright let's start with a rant.
Why do people feel the need to cheat on someone? If they want to be with the other person fucking break up with the person you are with and get it on with the person you want. Don't fucking go off and try to be sneaky cause you're greedy about wanting 2 or more people you can have sex with or something and then don't expect someone to get, because THEY WILL. Someone will always get hurt and the CHEATER usually isn't the one getting hurt. The one that gets hurt is usually the one that puts the most into a relationship (Hint: Usually between only 2 people. IE: Man and Woman, Man and Man, Woman and woman. Unless iot is stated that the relatinship is open.) I will state any relationship in the rant to suppose to be only 2 people. When the cheater may feel the person they are with in no longer a thrill or someone they want, they don't dump them, but they find someone else that is able and willing to for-fill what the CHEATER needs or wants and then comes home to the other person and acts like nothing happens. I'm sorry but that has happened to me all to many times. IF THE PERSON IS NOT WHAT YOU WANT ANYMORE, DUMP THEM! DON'T KEEP THEM BECAUSE YOU THINK IT'S A BETTER IDEA, THE LONGER YOU HOLD THAT IN THE WORSE IT GETS AND THE MORE PAIN THAT GETS CAUSED! DON'T GO AND FUCK SOMEONE ELSE THINKING IT'LL ALL BE OVER BECAUSE IT'S NOT. YOU'LL REALIZE THAT WHAT YOU WANT, THE OTHER PERSON CAN'T GIVE YOU, SO YOU KEEP CHEATING MORE AND MORE. AND IN THE END, YOU TEAR THE OTHER PERSON UP INSIDE ONCE THEY FIND OUT.
It's not fair to that person. Not a single bit. How can someone really think it could..
I can't help but mention the best friend issue. Why is it when you have a best friend of the oppisite sex (Or maybe the same sex) you fall in love with them. You understand that they have everything you could want in someone and you want to spend your time with them and kiss them, let them know you will always be there for them on any level when they need it, but they never see that for you. It always seems the best people you could think you could ever want don't want you till it's too late and you don't want them any more. I don't about anything in this world but why is it that when the world gives you lemons, we always make lemonade, hoping for the best out of it all? Why not shove a couple in your pants and become a guy for the day or up or shirt and become a girl for the day? Why not put a twist on things. See life from the other's opinion. I don't know if it could ever help, but I'm sure it could never hurt abyone for trying. Maybe you'll find out something about yourself that you didn't know before, or maybe some unknow explaination you never knew about.
Enough for my rant. I start a new second job on monday. It's at a local day care and I'm very excited! On the other hand I got pulled over on tuesday for cutting through a parking lot to "avoid a traffic light" The guy only gave me a warning and wished me to have a nice day. What a loser. Hehe. I have a driver's test later today so wish me luck. I fialed hte first time cause the guy was psming something else. e.e; Well, sorry about the rant. I'll post soon again I promise!
Love you all. <3