Another year - non-wedding bells do ring

Jan 26, 2008 16:15


ankaret has asked me for my memories of 1984.

Probably most significant about this year was that it was the year partner and I finally moved in together. At the end of August, a day or so after the Bank Holiday.

This represented the culmination of the process of finding a new larger flat and selling my old one, a process which included, along the way, being gazumped over a flat in Dartmouth Park Hill and inordinate amounts of niggling delays on the part of buyers' solicitors. The flat I finally bought, right at the top limit of what I felt I could then afford, has, what with London house price insanity, appeciated significantly.

Other things that were happening in 1984. I was two years into the research for my PhD. I was in therapy and it was going well. I read the whole of Remembrance of Things Past in the Penguin 3 volume edition of the Kilmartin translation, and was blown away by it. I can't remember with any particular detail what I was doing that year at work - it might just possibly have been the year I finally got my own office rather than having to perch in a corner of office shared with Former Line Manager.

There were various things that needed doing to the flat - decorating, getting a gas supply into the kitchen to connect the cooker, installing my washing machine, etc, buying furniture - the usual saga.

In the autumn we had a week's holiday in Malaga and Granada, during the course of which some extremely fine tapas and paella were consumed.

That's about it. Such major life changes perhaps occlude more quotidian memories.

travel, me, psychotherapy, domestic, life, proust, academic, relationships, changing, reminiscence

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