Or, that house he was insisting on renovating himself for years and years and years in the middle of nowhere to the neglect of wife and family's actual needs was a honking great metaphor for the state of their relationship, no?
We’d been living abroad, very rurally, for nine years, doing up a house:
During our relationship, I kept trying to convince my husband that we should move to a town, but he was adamant we couldn’t afford it. That had been dragging on for years, with him insisting on doing the renovation work himself. Eventually I cracked, moved into town and enrolled the kids (one of whom I think has special educational needs) in schools.
And: not entirely surprise twist: 'he wants to move in with us again at some point, to keep the family together'.
Salt across the doorsills, garlic nailed to the windows, motion-sensitive holy water sprinklers... Keep him out.
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