Blooooo mooooon: a first time for everything
Shock horror: Pamela Stephenson Connolly says DTMFA - or at least, seriously consider doing so - rather than how to fix a dysfunctional relationship which appears to be largely thus because of male partner's attitudes/behaviour - I’m constantly compared to every other woman he’s slept with - because I don’t have a multiple orgasm or “squirt” during sex, he automatically assumes that he’s failed. I don’t always climax during sex - again, that’s a massive problem for his ego.
And instead of this bit coming first:
'If this man is open to receiving real education about how to please you, you could consider teaching him.'
an approach for which she has significant form -
PSC starts off with: Help me understand why you put up with someone who treats you this way and makes you feel like this? For a start, he is lying to you. Unless he is extremely inexperienced, it is statistically impossible that every woman he has slept with has multiple orgasms, ejaculates or is able to climax on command in diverse positions.... My guess is your partner is actually extremely insecure, has no idea how a woman’s body works and needs to put you down to make up for his inadequacies.
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