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Mar 09, 2004 04:23

an examination of conscience... if you were in love with someone (or at least thought you were), and they didn't feel the same way about you for whatever reason, but you somehow acquired the ability to change that (i.e. you acquire the ability to change your appearance at will, you come across a number of wishes that can affect someones affections ( Read more... )

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Re: forgive me im a hopeless romantic glitzygal86 March 18 2004, 03:49:48 UTC

sorry it has taken me so long to reply to this i totally had a good reply and then my dad disconnected the comp bc im too much of a procrastinator, and then i was too lazy to rewrite it.

all right so as it does sound contradicting and i do believe i contradict myself alot, which is why im always neutral on alot of ethical issues, im not contradicting myself here. so when i said true love i meant that to be diffent from love. perhaps i should have been more clear and just used the word like or crush for that second usage.

i dont think love can not be mutual, i mean i think that someone can have a crush on someone who doesnt like them back but to me love is something much bigger than that, love develops over time between two people.
i think that by your knowledge of knowing that someone likes u then gives u the wanting to like them too or at least really search yourself emotionly for if you might have feelings for the person, sometimes you dont and then the person who does is upset but, for me anyways, when i find that out im sad for a while and do wish i could change myself but soon get over it bc i cant love someone who doesnt love me back, BUT i can love someone as a friend who doesnt love me(as a friend) back, depending upon the situation.
and for me, when i think i like someone for the most part its bc ive gained the confidence in myself to trust my emotions bc i have a hunch they like me too. my hunches have been wrong some times, but the fact that i had a hunch and then decided to think about my own feelings thus even makes that mutual.
once two people decide they both like eachother and well u know date, i think that is when love has the chance of popping in their lives.

i dont know if this made sense....it does to me! lol

42! ourlasthero March 18 2004, 22:10:55 UTC

you are both wrong here because the truth is that love is a word. that is all. it's a word used to describe an emotion or "something you feel." if you feel like you're in love, you are. it's that simple. there is no greater cosmic meaning behind the word.

Re: 42! glitzygal86 March 18 2004, 22:39:59 UTC

42? dude ur so hardcore! and psh to u and ur rationality hehe

Re: 42! anniexchrist March 20 2004, 03:42:37 UTC

so...how am i wrong?

Re: 42! ourlasthero March 23 2004, 17:24:48 UTC

it's not that rare to love someone that loves you back. it's rare to be attracted to someone who's also attracted to you. and i doubt that's really all that rare...

Re: 42! anniexchrist March 23 2004, 22:22:02 UTC

jigga whaaa? so love is just a word, and it's not rare for it to happen?
it's rare for me to be attracted to someone that's attracted to me back. so love is just mutual attraction in any sense? this confuses me. you just happen to spell out the definition of love differently, i think. i'm pretty sure we're saying the same thing.

Re: 42! ourlasthero March 24 2004, 19:26:13 UTC

it's cause people are all like this kind of love that kind of love. really though, love = caring. attraction does not really equal love. you're attracted to people you don't love, you love people you're not attracted to. yeah... i lost my train of thought because bethany called and i have to go get ready for hanging out now. haha. but i think you get the idea.

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