"To write more you need to read more," but what do I read?

[oudeteron]

Or rather, a better question is what do I want to read

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[mustntgetmy]

Okay, so this is a difficult question to answer, as you no doubt know. I agree that it's ridiculous and way past due that every single gender and sexual identity isn't given space in fiction (or, you know, in RL) to live beyond their label, or at least beyond a cis/heteronormative person's introduction to what ~being trans is all about. I actually think about this a lot with my own writing and I try hard to write across the spectrum, but I know I fall short. The sad truth is something I think you already know: YOU are going to have to write those stories that you want to read. You are going to have to be the trailblazer. Which sucks because this should have already been done for you. It's 20fucking16. Now in terms of writing for a mainstream audience? I don't know how that's going to work. I'm just about as jaded as you there. However, I also believe the whole "the moral arc of the universe is long and bends towards truth" bit, so I think that - worst case scenario - if you were to only ever get your writing published by a smaller

[oudeteron]

Seriously, you're thinking about it, so you're doing better than 90% of people already. In a lot of ways I wish people were thinking about it less - it's like everyone wants to justify why they're writing a character as trans and it's like, honestly, who gives a shit. No one's ever felt the need to justify all the cis assumptions. I suppose this is one way the whole diversity awareness mindset (while useful in a lot of ways, obviously) might sometimes hold even the well-meaning people back because they think they haven't done enough due diligence. And then, to show that they did expose themselves to something, they plop in the stupid "born in the wrong body" trope and it's worse rather than better.

Anyway, I'd totally trust you to write a trans character and there's really not that much to it. Just give them individuality which is the #1 rule of writing anything, right

[mustntgetmy]

Yeah, I really hope we get to the point where no one has to stop and consider whether or not to make a character trans or not. That said, for me, I do feel like I have to be more conscious and write characters outside my limited realm of experience because if I don’t I’ll be lazy and I’ll end up just writing all white/white-passing cis heteronormative people

[oudeteron]

Very late reply, but I just want to say I really appreciate how much time you took to answer this in such detail! I kept not having time to answer "properly" but in the end it's worse not to answer at all, so here I am answering at least a little. Thanks for all these recs, and serious kudos to you for being able to recall them just like that on being prompted.

Of these I've only read Tipping the Velvet, Orlando, and actually two other books by Jeanette Winterson but I could always do with more of those. The rest are new to me, so thanks again

[mustntgetmy]

You're welcome! I am literally always up for making book lists, haha.

Ooh, which other books did you read by Winterson? I've got Oranges Aren't the Only Fruit on my TBR but what else by her is good?

I've always tried to be serious when writing anyone outside my experience so hopefully that's come across. And I def agree with your point on LGBTQA+ vs. race because even country to country race perceptions and racism is so, so different.

I keep not wanting to share it until it's entirely done (that is to say that all three books are done). So right now the first and third are done but the fucking second book remains a perpetual pain in my ass. That's probably the one that I'd need your opinion the most on, ironically. When lightning strikes and I figure out how to solve my problem I'll inundate you with my series, haha. Probably, you may get the horror book first.