Mar 09, 2009 22:35
I'm wrtiing this today in hopes that I in doing so I can get it off of my mind, cause it's kind of constantly been on my mind the last couple of days. ...Also I know quite a few people I have here on my lj really either like dreams or like thinking about/translating them so have at kids...
Where to start? Okay well, the other day my friend hit me up online with a "I had the weirdest dream about you!!!" Sadly this is quite common and I've been getting this a lot lately even though I never remember my dreams, random friends will have dreams that include me in them...
This friend is my friend Katie (I guess it's okay to use her real name...) from back home, Katie is one of the people I met when working at The Costume Castle a few years back and She and I got really close, in that short amount of time. Something about two very reliable, friendly and trustworthy people meeting each other you know? Though I so barely spend time with her I still feel like I would do most anything for her and she the same for me... But after we both left the job (being seasonal temps) I've only seen her after that a handful of times since then (unfortunately!) So imagine how random it is that she'd have a dream about me all these years later... and we're not talking about me just being in it... we're talking about me being the focus of the dream. Anyways I was (as I always am when someone tells me this...) really curious and told her the last person to tell me that followed up with a dream about me turning into a zombie and chasing them around! (yes!) and asked what her dream was about... she followed up with this... (copy and pasted directly)
"okay in my dream we were at some event of some sort. and we had a hotel room. and we were laying on a bed together. and we were touching. and we both realized it was weird. so you sat up. and there were these two girls in there. like young. like 18. and one of them was really cute and had blonde hair and braces. and she was super into you. and you didnt fucking get it. you broke her heart and i had to slap you and say DUDE she digs you. stop being such a dense man and make a move!
thats all i remember"
Very interesting... here's what I can say about it:
The first thing I realized is that the hotel room mentioned reminds me of where I currently live because everyone says my appartment/dorm really is just like living in a hotel room (to which I agree) also after many times of re-reading I caught the "we were at some event of some sort..." an event we got a hotel for? sounds like a con no? that's really not all that uncommon for me.
The next part... "and we were laying on a bed together. and we were touching. and we both realized it was weird. so you sat up." This part really sums up mine and Katies relationship with me... infact I couldn't think of a better way to describe it.
Next... "and there were these two girls in there. like young. like 18." ...really caught me off guard because the exact night Katie had this dream I spent it awake all night talking to my friend who is 18 and has a lot she's dealing with right now but she couldnt possibly fit the description of the one Katie describes after because though she's super cute... she's not blonde, she doesnt have braces and she really likes somebody else right now...
The one Katie does describe... "and one of them was really cute and had blonde hair and braces. and she was super into you. and you didnt fucking get it." ...at first totally reminds me of a certain someone with the descriptions of looking very young, really cute, blonde hair and liking me but the braces throws that off it's like that one detail that really makes me think it's someone else.... (I was curious... does anyone know if I showed Katie pictures of girls I know she'd be able to pick out who the girls were? or does the dream work that Katie would insert random faces in their place? I don't know how that works...?)
The last part might be what scares me the most... "and she was super into you. and you didnt fucking get it. you broke her heart and i had to slap you and say DUDE she digs you. stop being such a dense man and make a move!" ...this is exactly what I'm most afraid of if a relationship comes my way anytime soon... with my current status of being super fed-up with the way that things have gone: "boycott love." And to top it off the final part... "you broke her heart and i had to slap you and say DUDE she digs you. stop being such a dense man and make a move!" ...is completely in character for Katie... she's a brawler and stands up for what she belives is wrong.
*sigh* I really shouldn't worry about all this but it's definately on my mind as of late.
Final thoughts: I've heard Dave suggest the possibilty of dream walking more than a few times, which I do believe is possible but my understanding of the phenomenom is that I'd have to be sleeping for it to happen... (correct me if I'm wrong) and I was up all night having tea and talking to my friend as I said before... So my current belief is maybe its something to do with the future? A warning of some kind maybe? Maybe it's an actual future event? (I don't know how these things work...) Maybe Katie should apply for the X-men? Who knows... anyone else got an opinion or idea to thow in?
One other thing I wanna thow in is that though I didnt sleep when Katie was dreaming this before I found out that she dreamt this I went to sleep during the day and had a very weird dream (well anytime I actually remember a dream it's weird but...) where I spent a long time talking to Jenny Lewis the lead singer of Rilo Kiley and I actually remember some of the strange things we talked about but the whole event was almost parallel to the night I had previously talking to my firend... both were over tea and in the front room in my appartment...
Regardless I want to say that if anyone does have a dream with me in it I am always really interested in hearing about it... I'm not as disturbed as it seems I'm more curious... dreams are a strange thing to me...
Sleep tight kids...
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