Your alot more likely to get what you want out of someone if you ask nicely and once. Threats and hopeless begging get you know where. If you don't get what you want don't hate the person for ever because of it. You can't win them all for goodness sake. Tit for tat isn't always the best situation, in fact more often than not everyone ends up losing. I'm not saying bend over backwards to help someone, but treat them like you'd treat them if there was no water under the bridge. I don't know about you but I think people genuinely want to help other people. Unfortunately people think that pther people don't want to help them. And if you think someone won't you why should you help them. If you think someone will judge you, you should have the opprotunity to judge them as well right? Wrong. Your problem is rarely other people, it's more often than not yourself.
The rest of the post would go some thing like this: Music, Work, Japanese, Sleep, blah, blah, blah.........
So I'll just leave it at that.