things that make you go hmmmmmm....
when you have a friend who :
1. Doesnt talk to you for 3 weeks until you finally call them cause they wont do it themselves
2. You are the one who makes the effort
3. They tell you they enjoy being your friend, but
4. They hate argueing with you because basically you have a very different view of life
5. Apparently Im not the best christian(never said I was)
6. YOu tell them after calling them three days in a row that the ball is in their court
7. It takes them 4 days to finally call you
what do you think that means, Im wondering if this person really is my friend or if Im wasting my time. Please help me out people, I dont know what to do. Im tired of being the person that works for my friedships and have friends that dont seem to really care, but yet I hate throwing a friendship away.
Brings me to my next question, why are we so stuck on the idea of calling people friends or best friends, when in reality most of the people we associate with are nothing more then aquintances?
1. Doesnt talk to you for 3 weeks until you finally call them cause they wont do it themselves
2. You are the one who makes the effort
3. They tell you they enjoy being your friend, but
4. They hate argueing with you because basically you have a very different view of life
5. Apparently Im not the best christian(never said I was)
6. YOu tell them after calling them three days in a row that the ball is in their court
7. It takes them 4 days to finally call you
what do you think that means, Im wondering if this person really is my friend or if Im wasting my time. Please help me out people, I dont know what to do. Im tired of being the person that works for my friedships and have friends that dont seem to really care, but yet I hate throwing a friendship away.
Brings me to my next question, why are we so stuck on the idea of calling people friends or best friends, when in reality most of the people we associate with are nothing more then aquintances?