After over seven long years of silence, my biological mother has contacted me -- in one of the most weirdest ways possible. She sent me some flowers -- roses and violets. Attached was a note: "Roses are red, Violets are blue, It's been a long time, and I sure miss you!" *rolling my eyes*
Hmm.....let's see -- why did I break off contact?
- She married a child molester who assaulted me. She then got furious when I refused to have him at my wedding.
- She refused to attend my wedding. Partly due to reason #1, but mostly because I had an Atheist wedding.
- She treated me like crap for 30 years.
- Many, many other reasons....
I have no desire to have contact with her.
I will enjoy the flowers, after all it's not their fault! :) Reed suggested that after the flowers die, I should mail them back to her with a note that says "Thanks for the flowers. I'm done with them now, just like I am done with you." HA! I like that idea! :)