I hate it when people ask if I do something that a majority of people I know do. It's kind of embarrassing especially if interest in that particular thing grew out of your system decades ago, yet everyone else seems so bent on it still. It gets you lumped together with their group despite your efforts to avoid it. I kind of understand now the point of view of some people I never liked before.
I hate it when people assume things and give you a sermon about their ideals. This is why I never liked religion. I hate it when people's ideals get mixed in with the rules. Honestly, some people cannot for the life of them stay objective in their decisions. They should learn to detach themselves from their ideals and just stick with what the agreement states. Don't make rules if it can't be followed anyway.
I hate it when you don't know why particular things are happening. I always like to know the cause of a particular situation if it concerns me, and hate being in the dark about things. I never ask about awkward situations because I feel that some things are meant to be told at the right time, and shouldn't be pried from you... But still, it should surface eventually and be dealt with.
I also hate it when people not really involved with a problem comes "to the rescue" and tries to "help" with the situation. Most of the time, it just makes things worse, and my stubbornness will surface and any reason from these people will sound crass and unintelligent. Don't try to help if you don't even know what you're dealing with. You're not shrinks, or cult leaders who can influence people to do your bidding. Stay the fuck out of things you're not concerned with.
Mainly, I hate people who judge you easily as though you're just one of them. I hate people who force you their ideals. I hate people who meddle with things they are not directly concerned with. And when I hate people, it takes a long time and some proof for me to stop hating.
In the flipside,
I love people I can trust. I love people who can respect your principles, even if they stick to their own. I love people who can see you for who you are, and not who you're with. I love people who are concerned about you, but leave you to decide what to do. Most of all, I love people who stick to you no matter what, even if you tend to be all crappy like this sometimes.
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