Since today is Singles Awareness Day I figured this was kinda nice. Might ruin the day but whutever.
In Love
· Falls into it suddenly
· In love with love
· Can’t eat or sleep
· Emphasizes beauty
· Wants sex now
· Based on my feelings
· Self-centered
· Expects to find happiness
· Asks “how am I doin’?”
· Focuses on others meeting our expectations
· Possessive and jealous
· Is Blind
· Tries to avoid problems
Real Love
- Grows with time
- Love of a person
- Can think rationally
- Emphasizes character
- Willing to wait
- Based on others needs
- Self-controlled
- Expects to work for happiness
- Asks “How are you doin’?”
- Provides unconditional acceptance of the other person
- Allows others freedom
- Has a realistic view of others strengths and weaknesses
- Works through problems
Most of list 1 was me when I had the crush of the centry on Michael Majestic. It was one of those crushes that I look back on and ask myself why I acted the way that I did. Michael was and still is a great guy liking him wasn't stupid. I just acted stupid.
The second list is mostly how I act towards my friends. So feel good. I treat my friends better than I've treated any of the guys that I was/am or are into.