I am off today. horray for that. I want to be as far away from ManorCare as I possibly can. just for today. tomorrow I will go back though. hehe
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Re: This is from Aliciaophelia_roseMay 9 2003, 11:41:41 UTC
ok. anyway. first of all. we are over this whole thing now. I think everyone said what needed to be said here and it's over with. For some reason Jasmine never really liked us at least to my knoweledge she didn't. for whatever reason. It just seemed that whenever we were around she would create drama/problems. And we have never had big problem with her, and if we did we certainly wouldn't make it public like she did. Andrea and I happened to read that entry on her journal because she was on our friend's page. Not because we were snooping or whatever but because when i got up in the morning and checked my friends page there it was. I understand she can write what she wants but I can't imagine treating your girlfriend's friends in such a way. Just for your girlfriends sake. We have always tried to make peace with Jasmine, first out of our own interests and desire to make friends, but after a while it was more for Dani's sake, while secretly hoping she would someday get along with us. But it's clear to us that it will never happen. We talked with Dani, and we didn't feel it was fair to have her be in the middle. You can't put someone in the middle between you and their girlfriend. But why should we have to put up with Jasmine always starting shit with us? and why should Dani have to put up with it? So in Dani's best interests we have decided to just go our own way. So that she can be happy. We never said we hated her or didn't want to speak to her again, just that for a while it needs to be cooled down. For her sake. and for ours. Why should we put up with that and why should Dani have to be in the middle. Even if we don't intentionally put her in the middle she would still wind up there. And mind you even though she is my friend, she is Andrea's friend and those two had the conversation and made the decision. I am just here. And when I write about New York or wherever I go It's not for any purpose other than to keep my friends in touch with my life. And I am not even FROM Pennsylvania. I am only here for Andrea. So I don't know who's getting stuck WHERE. I have no problems with you. I don't know why you think I do. I am pretty much neutral in all situations. I have never said anything about you or had any bad feelings towards you. But I understand you must defend your friends. I am over this now. I haven't thought about it in quite some time. And I don't know why everythings coming down on me. Because I was always the one saying "give her another chance" whenever she would start her shit. Andrea is the one with the problem. and although I support her Andrea is the one who made the decisions she did with Dani. They talked about it. They can fix it if they want to. I have no hard feelings towards Dani whatsoever. I don't know her THAT well. All I know is that the situation was hurting Andrea, and I'm sure it hurt Dani, but they talked about it and that's the end. Whatever happens next is between the two of them. I only get involved if someone brings me into it, and clearly that happened. I can't just sit here and let someone talk trash about me. All things aside though, it had more to do with Andrea and Dani's friendship than anything else.
first of all. we are over this whole thing now. I think everyone said what needed to be said here and it's over with. For some reason Jasmine never really liked us at least to my knoweledge she didn't. for whatever reason. It just seemed that whenever we were around she would create drama/problems. And we have never had big problem with her, and if we did we certainly wouldn't make it public like she did. Andrea and I happened to read that entry on her journal because she was on our friend's page. Not because we were snooping or whatever but because when i got up in the morning and checked my friends page there it was. I understand she can write what she wants but I can't imagine treating your girlfriend's friends in such a way. Just for your girlfriends sake. We have always tried to make peace with Jasmine, first out of our own interests and desire to make friends, but after a while it was more for Dani's sake, while secretly hoping she would someday get along with us. But it's clear to us that it will never happen. We talked with Dani, and we didn't feel it was fair to have her be in the middle. You can't put someone in the middle between you and their girlfriend. But why should we have to put up with Jasmine always starting shit with us? and why should Dani have to put up with it? So in Dani's best interests we have decided to just go our own way. So that she can be happy. We never said we hated her or didn't want to speak to her again, just that for a while it needs to be cooled down. For her sake. and for ours. Why should we put up with that and why should Dani have to be in the middle. Even if we don't intentionally put her in the middle she would still wind up there. And mind you even though she is my friend, she is Andrea's friend and those two had the conversation and made the decision. I am just here.
And when I write about New York or wherever I go It's not for any purpose other than to keep my friends in touch with my life. And I am not even FROM Pennsylvania. I am only here for Andrea. So I don't know who's getting stuck WHERE.
I have no problems with you. I don't know why you think I do. I am pretty much neutral in all situations. I have never said anything about you or had any bad feelings towards you. But I understand you must defend your friends. I am over this now. I haven't thought about it in quite some time. And I don't know why everythings coming down on me. Because I was always the one saying "give her another chance" whenever she would start her shit. Andrea is the one with the problem. and although I support her Andrea is the one who made the decisions she did with Dani. They talked about it. They can fix it if they want to. I have no hard feelings towards Dani whatsoever. I don't know her THAT well. All I know is that the situation was hurting Andrea, and I'm sure it hurt Dani, but they talked about it and that's the end. Whatever happens next is between the two of them. I only get involved if someone brings me into it, and clearly that happened. I can't just sit here and let someone talk trash about me. All things aside though, it had more to do with Andrea and Dani's friendship than anything else.
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