Because it's easier to linger on something you can't have than risk a future that could be even better. You are young, smart, and talented. Don't waste your heart on some idiot who isn't worth the dirt under your shoe. Eventually, you end up being no better than him and you know what, no one will ever trust you. Ever.
Because we aren't just meant to be with "one person." And I"m not talking about polyamory, because god knows I'm not. But, we have different soul mates, different people in our lives. How small a world is that if we can't move on from past love? If we can't learn and grow from love and relationships?
But I think we do. How depressing is it to think, we have more than one soul mate yet we can't be with those other people? And the only way to be with one of those other people is for a relationship to end.
We have so many soul mates. Friends, lovers, non-romantic partners in our lives. How more depressing is it to think that we can't engage with those people without relationships ending? And worse, that to engage with them, you have to hurt other people and yourself?
You're so young, Charlie. And you're going to walk whatever roads you walk. But he clearly doesn't make you happy and why do that to yourself? It isn't worth the years you are wasting.
I gotta agree with saraannesidle. Don't think there's just one person out of the fucking billions on Earth that we're, like, "meant" to be with. Okay, you'll never meet all 7-whatever billion, but you'll meet more people.
Love is a real fucking thing, but I don't think having only one soulmate is.
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You're so young, Charlie. And you're going to walk whatever roads you walk. But he clearly doesn't make you happy and why do that to yourself? It isn't worth the years you are wasting.
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Love is a real fucking thing, but I don't think having only one soulmate is.
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