Comments | openingupnow: Should I?

openingupnow

Should I?

Jul 14, 2005 02:42

Should I take the chance again, knowing full well what happened last time, should I risk hurting someone else I already know I like, that I would like to ask out? Fuck, that works well for the situation, because I am very fucked right now, for those that want to know I will probably go for it, but not because having it not happen again is trivial ( Read more... )

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anonymous July 14 2005, 13:44:32 UTC

i know exactly wat u should do, u should tell me who u like!
~Keri

texascowgirl214 July 14 2005, 13:57:43 UTC

Keri, we -all- want to know. But we can only push so far. Just wait like everyone else.

He made a serious post; You should post a serious comment. =3

openingupnow July 14 2005, 16:00:12 UTC

to the all wanting to know, it is very true, but also please do make a serious post

poi_dragon July 14 2005, 18:06:35 UTC

y? serious people get cranky :P

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hikou_ July 14 2005, 17:02:06 UTC

People are going to get hurt no matter what you do. No way to avoid it. I don't have much advice because I'm far from experienced in this field. Anyway, go with what you feel is right for you and not for someone else. You'll end up regretting later down the line if you don't.

Good Luck

openingupnow July 14 2005, 23:22:56 UTC

this may be true, but it is also the point of being the source of the pain, and knowing so as well

poi_dragon July 14 2005, 18:09:04 UTC

c! this is why i think they had it better 20 years ago, u like someone, u ask them out on A date, and if u like it u go again. it's it's perfectly fine to be dating many people, and going steady is a big thing. now it's gotten stupid, b/c we r young, we change, we can't hold serious relationships for longs amounts of time. so i don't know, i think the whole thing is screwed, but if u think it could do good, go ahaid.

texascowgirl214 July 14 2005, 18:23:13 UTC

I personally can not wait til I get to college or older when I can drive by myself and just date. Test the waters so to say.

Just date and not go steady with just the words "Do you want to go out". That -should- mean a date, and not going steady with six words.

I do miss the conventional dating that was described in the 'old' days because it seemed so carefree.

... anonymous July 14 2005, 20:07:35 UTC

if you never take the chance again, what kind of life will that be? (wow, that came from me *laughs at self*) but if you don't, you'll probably spend alot of time wonder what could have happened, right? just be happy, ok? ~rebecca

Re: ... openingupnow July 14 2005, 23:20:36 UTC

all of that from the least likely person in my mind, I guess though that you are correct, still though

anonymous July 15 2005, 01:41:23 UTC

yea yea yea, bring my loserdom into it. but seriously (i didn't say that, just a pun on the serious comment thing) ~rebecca

openingupnow July 15 2005, 01:58:28 UTC

use reply, and not anything with loerdom, just you do not seem the most likely person from which to hear this

anonymous July 15 2005, 02:08:16 UTC

yea, i know, that's the basic reason for laughing at myself, but, well, i'm right. and u know it or u'd be making fun of me for some other reason ^_^ so there. i'll be like my old teacher trying to teach math. giving advice w/o experience. but i'm still right.

openingupnow July 15 2005, 03:16:49 UTC

lol, ok, still good advice, just not expected from you

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