An emotional update
So things have been fabulous in relation to Jim and the girls. We have our life stresses, such as money etc.. but we are finding ways to make it work.Thats part of this phase of life I think.. first home... young kids... and our choice to have me stay home with the kids...
I have been struggling a lot enotionally lately... most recently has been our issues (that have been happening for some time now) with Shadow... she has been stress unrinating... clean and multiple boxes are not helping.. she is chronically peeing on our furniture which seems to us as an obvious stress reaction. We cannot have this inthe hosue with our girls... so we have been struggling with our various options... try and find her a home... we have been trying for 2 months now and no interest in healthy but also 12yr old cat that stress pees... so we have coem down to the option of trying the SPCA, or having her as an outdoor cat... We opted to have her here as an outdoor cat... she is a strong cat and has better chance here with us, than the SPCA potentially putting her down... SoI am feeling much guilt...
this on top of my mom issues.. that post to come.. but for those who re up to date.. SHE SHOWED UP AT MY DOOR TODAY!... UNANNOUNCED!... this all to come when I can post child free.. it a long one
I have been struggling a lot enotionally lately... most recently has been our issues (that have been happening for some time now) with Shadow... she has been stress unrinating... clean and multiple boxes are not helping.. she is chronically peeing on our furniture which seems to us as an obvious stress reaction. We cannot have this inthe hosue with our girls... so we have been struggling with our various options... try and find her a home... we have been trying for 2 months now and no interest in healthy but also 12yr old cat that stress pees... so we have coem down to the option of trying the SPCA, or having her as an outdoor cat... We opted to have her here as an outdoor cat... she is a strong cat and has better chance here with us, than the SPCA potentially putting her down... SoI am feeling much guilt...
this on top of my mom issues.. that post to come.. but for those who re up to date.. SHE SHOWED UP AT MY DOOR TODAY!... UNANNOUNCED!... this all to come when I can post child free.. it a long one