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im so tired. all ive been doing lately is working here and there. im not mad, just tired. yesterday was so stressful. i had fun though and we learned a lot of new dances. i got work in 2 hrs at ritas, so im prolly gonna make this quick and take a nap before g2g.
whats difference between asking someone to change, and asking someone to be different? when is asking someone to change too much? when is asking someone to change for the better, but only in your definition of better, ok?
i just had this little arguement with my boyfriend, nothing serious really, we made up. but its still erking me. i asked him to get a haircut, and for those who know my boyfriend know what im talking about. im my case, i think his hair is getting out of control, but he says he likes his hair. he wants to keep it like that, but i think its too frizzy, long, and all over the place. its cute at times, but with my party coming, i want him to become more presentable, meaning getting a hair cut. but he says im asking him to change so everyone else would approve. i just dont know. i dont care what people think, but then i do. its his life not mine, but dont i have a say in it? im his girlfriend right? don't i get to voice my opinion out there? maybe thats the thing, i can voice my opinion, but its his decision. but what if his decision isn't what i want. can't he just respect my feelings and just cut it off, i mean it ain't like its not gonna grow back, right? thats what i tell him all the time. but he wants his hair long. bahhh. i guess thats the end of that rant.
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whats difference between asking someone to change, and asking someone to be different? when is asking someone to change too much? when is asking someone to change for the better, but only in your definition of better, ok?
i just had this little arguement with my boyfriend, nothing serious really, we made up. but its still erking me. i asked him to get a haircut, and for those who know my boyfriend know what im talking about. im my case, i think his hair is getting out of control, but he says he likes his hair. he wants to keep it like that, but i think its too frizzy, long, and all over the place. its cute at times, but with my party coming, i want him to become more presentable, meaning getting a hair cut. but he says im asking him to change so everyone else would approve. i just dont know. i dont care what people think, but then i do. its his life not mine, but dont i have a say in it? im his girlfriend right? don't i get to voice my opinion out there? maybe thats the thing, i can voice my opinion, but its his decision. but what if his decision isn't what i want. can't he just respect my feelings and just cut it off, i mean it ain't like its not gonna grow back, right? thats what i tell him all the time. but he wants his hair long. bahhh. i guess thats the end of that rant.
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