*Does Courtney's Quiz*
1. What is more difficult for you, looking into someones eyes when you are telling someone how you feel, or looking into someones eyes when they are telling you how they feel?
Both, I don't think either is easier...
2. Think of the last time you were REALLY angry. Why were you angry? Do you still feel the same way?
My brother was acting ridiculous and yes I still feel the same way. Grrr...
3. You are on a flight from Honolulu to Chicago non-stop. There is a fire in the back of the plane. You have enough time to make ONE phone call. Who do you call? What do you tell them?
My husband, I'd just tell him how much I love him and how much of a difference he's made in my life and how I was
glad to have known and loved him.
4. You are at the doctor's office and he has just informed you that you have approximately one month to live. Do you tell anyone/everyone you are going to die? What do you do with your remaining days? Would you be afraid?
I wouldn't tell anyone because I wouldn't want to spend my final days mourning. I'd live everyday to the fullest and
make sure everyone knew how I really felt about them and how much I really love them. I'd try to do as many things,
things I always wanted to do and thought I had time for, as I could. I would be afraid more for my loved ones than
for myself.
5. You can have one of the following two things. Love or trust? Which do you choose? Why?
Trust, because you can't have love without it.
6. You are walking down the street on your way to work. There is a dog drowning in the canal on the side of the street. Your boss has told you if you are late even once more, you are fired. Do you take the time to save the dogs life? Why or Why not?
Yes, because life is much more precious.
7. You are unfaithful to your spouse/significant other. Do you tell him/her? Why or Why not?
Yes, because he or she deserves to know. I'd tell them and beg for their forgiveness with all my heart, knowing I
don't deserve it.
8. Your best friend confesses that he/she has feelings for you more then just friendship. He/she is falling in love with you. What do you ( or did you ) do/say?
I'd tell them how I really felt and hope with all my heart the friendship could still withstand. But I'd also
understand sometimes the hardest thing is to love someone knowing they don't love you back. Sometimes you just have
to get away from the pain and rejection.
9. Think of the last person who you know that died. You have the chance to give them 1 hour of life back, but you have to give up one year of yours. Do you do it? Why or Why not?
My step-grandpa died earlier this year, I didn't really know him but I do know how much he was suffering. If I could
give him 1 hour back, pain and suffering-free, yes, I would. But if he would spend that hour suffering, I'd do him
and favor and not.
10. Are you the kind of friend that you would want to have as a friend?
Sometimes. I know I'm not the kind or girlfriend/wife.
11. Does love = sex?
Hell no. And if it doess, get out now!
12. Your boss tells your coworker that the company has to let him/her go because of work shortage, and he/she is the newest employee. You have been there much longer. Your coworker has a family to support and no other means of income. Do you go to your boss and offer to leave the company? Why or Why not?
It may sound selfish, but no. I need my job as well and I do have seniority.
13. When was the last time you told someone HONESTLY how you felt regardless of how difficult it was for you to say? Who was it? What did you have to tell the person?
My wedding, Tres, and everything a wedding means.
14. What would be (or what was) harder for you to tell a friend, you love them or that you do not love them back?
Do not love them back.
15. What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up? Why would it be hard to lose?
My marriage. It holds all my hopes and dreams for the future.
16. Excluding romantic love, when was the last time you told someone you loved them. Who were they to you?
Jemima, my best friend, my sister.
17. Imagine. it is a dark night, you are alone, it is raining outside, you hear someone walking around outside your window. WHO do you wish was there with you?
My brother, because he's always protected me and is very capable and fearless.
18. Would you give a homeless person CPR if they were dying? Why or why not?
Yes, if I knew how. Because life is precious.
19. You are holding onto your grandmothers hand and the hand of a newborn that you do not know as they hang over the edge of a cliff. You have to let one go to save the other. Who do you let fall to their death? What was your rationale for making the decision?
If I HAD to choose, the infant, because it has so much more life ahead of it than my grandmother.
20. Are you old fashioned?
Nope
21. When was the last time you were nice to someone and did NOT expect anything in return for it?
A lot of time, can't remember an exact instance.
22. Which would you choose, true love with a guarantee of a broken heart, or never loved at all? Why?
True love with a broken heart, because we'd make memories to last a lifetime.
Both, I don't think either is easier...
2. Think of the last time you were REALLY angry. Why were you angry? Do you still feel the same way?
My brother was acting ridiculous and yes I still feel the same way. Grrr...
3. You are on a flight from Honolulu to Chicago non-stop. There is a fire in the back of the plane. You have enough time to make ONE phone call. Who do you call? What do you tell them?
My husband, I'd just tell him how much I love him and how much of a difference he's made in my life and how I was
glad to have known and loved him.
4. You are at the doctor's office and he has just informed you that you have approximately one month to live. Do you tell anyone/everyone you are going to die? What do you do with your remaining days? Would you be afraid?
I wouldn't tell anyone because I wouldn't want to spend my final days mourning. I'd live everyday to the fullest and
make sure everyone knew how I really felt about them and how much I really love them. I'd try to do as many things,
things I always wanted to do and thought I had time for, as I could. I would be afraid more for my loved ones than
for myself.
5. You can have one of the following two things. Love or trust? Which do you choose? Why?
Trust, because you can't have love without it.
6. You are walking down the street on your way to work. There is a dog drowning in the canal on the side of the street. Your boss has told you if you are late even once more, you are fired. Do you take the time to save the dogs life? Why or Why not?
Yes, because life is much more precious.
7. You are unfaithful to your spouse/significant other. Do you tell him/her? Why or Why not?
Yes, because he or she deserves to know. I'd tell them and beg for their forgiveness with all my heart, knowing I
don't deserve it.
8. Your best friend confesses that he/she has feelings for you more then just friendship. He/she is falling in love with you. What do you ( or did you ) do/say?
I'd tell them how I really felt and hope with all my heart the friendship could still withstand. But I'd also
understand sometimes the hardest thing is to love someone knowing they don't love you back. Sometimes you just have
to get away from the pain and rejection.
9. Think of the last person who you know that died. You have the chance to give them 1 hour of life back, but you have to give up one year of yours. Do you do it? Why or Why not?
My step-grandpa died earlier this year, I didn't really know him but I do know how much he was suffering. If I could
give him 1 hour back, pain and suffering-free, yes, I would. But if he would spend that hour suffering, I'd do him
and favor and not.
10. Are you the kind of friend that you would want to have as a friend?
Sometimes. I know I'm not the kind or girlfriend/wife.
11. Does love = sex?
Hell no. And if it doess, get out now!
12. Your boss tells your coworker that the company has to let him/her go because of work shortage, and he/she is the newest employee. You have been there much longer. Your coworker has a family to support and no other means of income. Do you go to your boss and offer to leave the company? Why or Why not?
It may sound selfish, but no. I need my job as well and I do have seniority.
13. When was the last time you told someone HONESTLY how you felt regardless of how difficult it was for you to say? Who was it? What did you have to tell the person?
My wedding, Tres, and everything a wedding means.
14. What would be (or what was) harder for you to tell a friend, you love them or that you do not love them back?
Do not love them back.
15. What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up? Why would it be hard to lose?
My marriage. It holds all my hopes and dreams for the future.
16. Excluding romantic love, when was the last time you told someone you loved them. Who were they to you?
Jemima, my best friend, my sister.
17. Imagine. it is a dark night, you are alone, it is raining outside, you hear someone walking around outside your window. WHO do you wish was there with you?
My brother, because he's always protected me and is very capable and fearless.
18. Would you give a homeless person CPR if they were dying? Why or why not?
Yes, if I knew how. Because life is precious.
19. You are holding onto your grandmothers hand and the hand of a newborn that you do not know as they hang over the edge of a cliff. You have to let one go to save the other. Who do you let fall to their death? What was your rationale for making the decision?
If I HAD to choose, the infant, because it has so much more life ahead of it than my grandmother.
20. Are you old fashioned?
Nope
21. When was the last time you were nice to someone and did NOT expect anything in return for it?
A lot of time, can't remember an exact instance.
22. Which would you choose, true love with a guarantee of a broken heart, or never loved at all? Why?
True love with a broken heart, because we'd make memories to last a lifetime.