MANAGUA, Nicaragua - Lisa A. Miller and her daughter, Isabella, started their fugitive lives here in the fall of 2009, disguised in the white scarves and long blue dresses of the Mennonites who spirited them out of the United States and adopting the aliases Sarah and Lydia
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also, ime, a lot of religious groups and cults try and exploit lgbtq people because we already have the internalized homophobia, we've already been raised in a culture that says we're sinners and disgusting and immoral and child abusers and going to hell. so yeah, while i'm not excusing what's she's done, i've known people who were manipulated like this because they were terrified that they were inherently sinful, dirty people because they were attracted to other women. i am LIVID at the individuals who helped her and reaffirmed that hateful worldview, and i'm pissed that with all this you had the gall to bring up mental illness.
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it's the jumping to "she must be mentally ill to do that" that i'm objecting to. even if she is, it may not have been a serious contributing factor. and even if it was a serious contributing factor, the constant conjecture about how criminals must be mental is both deflecting from larger societal problems that influence behaviour, and harmful to those of us living with mental illness.
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Also, I'm bisexual so you can sit the fuck down with that.
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and yet, related or not, the press is going to plaster headlines like MENTALLY ILL KILLER because drama and exaggeration sell better than serious inquiry into contributing factors.
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but there are a lot of other potential reasons for her actions including oh idk, homophobia. imo it detracts from larger societal issues by focusing on how anyone who does that must be crazy. "They're just crazy" is a great deflector from talking about larger issues of homophobia, hate crimes, racism, gun control, classism, etc.
also, on a more personal level, it's hard enough coping with news like this without the added slap in the face about mental illness.
& how does you being bisexual change any of what i said?
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& thank you for the apology
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So am I. I'm also mentally ill, and have never, in twenty-one years of life, kidnapped and brainwashed a child.
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