Info Post: The Post Cosmo Wishes It Could Be

[lickety_split]

WOMEN'S HEALTH POST: SEX ED FOR WOMEN (aka TMI Post)

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SPECIFIC TRIGGER WARNINGS: Sexual

Comments

[poetic_pixie_13]

Ugh, this post when I have to leave in ten minutes. ;_________;

Flawless post, as always, bb. <3

ALSO TMI TIME. Erm. I've never actually orgasmed. I find that there's either the build-up and then it just... stops. OR it gets too intense and I have to stop. I'd like to figure out how to solve this but I still enjoy masturbation and sex so even if I can't figure out I still have funtimes.

Speaking of which, I need to get laid. -_-

[lickety_split]

and I have to stop.

DON'T STOP GURL, SHIT'S REALLY BOUT TO HIT THE FAN IN ABOUT 3 SECONDS.

[poetic_pixie_13]

I KNOW BUT, LIKE, IT'S ALMOST TOO INTENSE? IDK IDK.

;_______;

I think it's partly because I have a hard time physically relaxing (I sometimes am physically tense and I don't realize it), and just 'letting go.' Idk, I know that part of it is not thinking about orgasming and just letting it happen but it's hard for me to just shut my brain off like that.

[lickety_split]

Some orgasms REQUIRE that you scream and your body is clearly trying to have one so GIT IT!

[wicked_g]

I think it's partly because I have a hard time physically relaxing (I sometimes am physically tense and I don't realize it), and just 'letting go.' Idk, I know that part of it is not thinking about orgasming and just letting it happen but it's hard for me to just shut my brain off like that.

THIS

sorry for comment stalking you

[confectionqueen]

This helped me a lot to be able to relax and "let go" for future orgasms.
I have admittedly also drank to get the same effect(not drunk, but enough to give me a fuzzy feeling in my body/brain).

[justabwaybaby]

ARE YOU ME???
That's seriously my problem, as well. I get sooooo close then.... I just can't. I'll be fooling around with the boyfriend and then I have to tell him to stop because it's just too damn intense....

[rainbow_fish]

Do you own a vibrator?

A friend of mine from college had never had a college until she bought her rabbit.

[rainbow_fish]

Had never had a college? fml

Had never had an orgasm, I mean.

[origamicage]

I laughed way too hard, I'm sorry.

[baked_goldfish]

Rabbit vibes: make you come and do your papers

[seishin]

That made me go 'WHAAAAAA'?

Sorry bb, I lol'ed. :D

[popehippo]

TMI time?

TMI time!

But I have the exact same problem. I've tried just about everything, and I've actually gotten exhausted over trying too damn hard and my brain was just like "FUCK WE QUIT" while my body's left going "wait, what, I don't remember voting on this". Frrrrrrrrrrustrating.

[wicked_g]

Nope, me too. Like, whenever I have time to, I'm not in the mood AT ALL, and whenever I'm in the mood, it's like, the completely wrong time and place (i.e. at work, in public, on the subway).

It's so frustrating, that, being a virgin, I'm almost scared to have sex because I'd like to have this figured out before I allow someone else to touch me. And no, I'm not actually scared of having sex, but you know what I mean-I know first times are rarely perfect, and I don't expect that, but some form of control would be good.

[popehippo]

and whenever I'm in the mood, it's like, the completely wrong time and place (i.e. at work, in public, on the subway).

Habitually at 2 - 3 in the morning, when I'm my sleepiest. -_- All. The. Time.